Here’s the scenario: You woke up this morning lying next to someone other than your significant other. Now your first thoughts were probably somewhere along the lines of: “F@*K!!!! … What am I doing here??? And how did my underwear get stuck in the ceiling fan???” (Hey, it happens.)

Fly Guy, I need your advice on something. I was in the bed with my girl the other night, and I swear she said another man’s name in her sleep. I tried to tell myself that I was just tripping, but she did it again last night. I’m not sure if I should confront her about it, but I need to do something before I lose it.

As I prepare for my annual series on cheating, I felt the need to get the pulse of the people. For most, the idea of getting caught is enough to steer you away from being unfaithful in your relationship. But what if there was absolutely no way that you could get caught?