Dear Fly Guy, Okay so, there’s this guy that I had a crush on for over a decade. We always stayed in contact though both of us were in separate relationships. Once we were single, we decided to become more than” friends,” but without a “title.” At first, it was a long distance thing, as we didn’t want to rush things.

She irritates me. And I’m sure there’s more than a few people out there who don’t appreciate this type of honesty. But just to be clear, this has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with me and her, though. No scratch that, it has everything to do with me and her annoying habits.

Fly Guy, I need your advice on something. I was in the bed with my girl the other night, and I swear she said another man’s name in her sleep. I tried to tell myself that I was just tripping, but she did it again last night. I’m not sure if I should confront her about it, but I need to do something before I lose it.

You’ve been ignoring the signs for far too long. And while your mother, your close friends, and the entire church usher board all want you to move on to something new, you continue to faithfully stand by the “love” of your life. Now ordinarily I would applaud your decision to be your own person, but even I have to question your decision.