I purposely decided not to write an official New Year’s resolution column for two reasons. For starters, I just didn’t feel like it. (I mean seriously, don’t you ever get tired of reading those?) More importantly, I don’t believe January 1 brings about some magical change in us all. Now for some it may; but for others …

It’s amazing how easy it is for us to point out the faults in others. And judging from the progression of yesterday’s discussion, I think we all (or at least some of us) secretly find pleasure in lashing out at people from our past. But what if the tables were turned?

There’s a word that frequently gets tossed about (particularly when it comes to love and relationships) without out any real explanation for what it actually means. That word is (drum roll please) … crazy. We’ve all used it:

Christmas is rapidly approaching, and you still have no clue what to get your significant other. There’s no need to get anxious though, as I’ve designed a nice guide to direct you through this tedious process.

Periodically, I’m going to share with you some red flag behavior that should make you think twice about diving into deeper relational waters with a potential significant other. Let’s call this section “The Behavior Police.” First up, we have a disturbing pattern of behavior that I’ve seen in some men (I was actually guilty of this offense once upon a time.)

So here’s the scenario. There is this guy that you’ve had your eye on for quite some time. You think he’s interested in you, but he’s yet to make any serious move. So what should you do? Here’s my advice: take matters into your own hands. Now more than ever, women are beginning to take some serious initiative when it comes to their dating lives.

I receive an inspirational email called “Smalls Straws in A Soft Wind” every morning. As I read today’s offering, I felt compelled to share it with you. For those in the midst of transition, both in your personal and professional lives, this may be for you. I pray that whatever changes you are going through, that you allow God the opportunity to guide your steps accordingly. Enjoy your Friday.

There are but three certainties in life. Death, taxes, and John McCain’s inability to give a high five. While those three occurrences are virtually money in the bank, what you can’t always rely on is a complete understanding of love and relationships. Here’s the deal; as appealing as love may be, its intricacies are often as confusing as Al Sharpton’s insistence that man perms are cool.

My trip to LA last week, found me having quite an interesting chat with Jada Pinkett Smith. While I won’t bore you with all the details of our conversation, I do want to share her interesting views on “Baby Mamma Drama.” As one who’s personally dealt with raising another woman’s child (from husband Will Smith’s previous marriage), she was all too ready to help others avoid the pitfalls that can occur with such a scenario. Check out the audio of what she had to say.

I want to be with you. That much I do know. Your grace, your style; the way you walk and talk … hell, I even like the way you chew on those cheddar biscuits from Red Lobster. As far as I’m concerned, you’re precisely what I want in my life. There’s just one thing that’s holding me back from wholeheartedly pursuing you though…