What’s Up Fly Guy, I have read your articles and I’m an avid reader. I must say that coming to your website has been really interesting. Here is my situation: I just recently became single, after being with someone off and on for like 5 years. I tried to work on things with her, but she had a serious addiction to alcohol that I just couldn’t deal with.

Dear Fly Guy, I’m sure you’ve heard this same question a million times before, but I need you to answer it for me. I’m a single, successful woman and I just don’t understand why it’s so hard to find a man. I don’t want to put anyone else down, but it seems like women who are less deserving always end up with the good man. Is there something wrong with me?

Dear Fly Guy, I’ve been following your work for quite some time, and I have to give you props on discussing relationships in an unbiased way. When the fellas are out of line, you call us out; but you also do the same to the women. I have to wonder though if the women are really listening to you.

Dear Fly Guy, I need help with trusting my wife. I know that she loves me and regards me as the man of her dreams, but every time we get around other men, I’m afraid she’s looking at them. She’s a very beautiful woman, and commands a great amount of attention whenever she enters a room, which is a bit unnerving.

Dear Fly Guy, Last week I got frustrated with my boyfriend and sent him a long email stating I no longer wanted to be with him. I also told him that he had nothing to offer me, and that I was unhappy in the relationship. But when I said it, I was PMS’ing.

Dear Fly Guy, My boyfriend gave me an STD and is denying it. It’s curable, but when I asked him if he had anything, he said no. We are renting a house together; both of our names are on the lease; we aren’t speaking and are sleeping in separate rooms.

Dear Fly Guy, When is it appropriate for a woman to pay for a date? We seem to be having a disagreement about this with the men in my office. Thanks for your help.

Dear Fly Guy, I am in a dilemma right now. I recently met this guy who is nice, thoughtful, and seeking a relationship. He takes me out on great dates, calls when he says, and has a kind heart. The problem is I don’t feel any chemistry between us. On the other side of this is my ex. He is back trying to figure his way back into my life.

Dear Fly Guy…I desperately need your opinion on this one. You see, I’m a twenty-five year old married mother of three. My oldest child (a four year old daughter) is not by my husband, but since she was six months old, he’s been her father. She’s his princess and in her eyes he’s the world. Recently her father (my once upon a time high school sweetheart) recently decided that he wanted to come back into my child’s life.

Dear Fly Guy … I want to thank you for all of the help you’ve offered me over the past couple of years. I’ve noticed that the people on your site are very vocal about their opinions on love and relationships. Can you pose this question to them from me?
Am I the only one who has a problem dealing with the emotions of past relationships?