Honest moments of self-expression … I used to be afraid of those. Like most men, the idea of being vulnerable was not something that I was very comfortable with. I had to be a man … at least that’s what I thought I was doing at the time.

In case you didn’t know, Victoria Secret model Selita Ebanks is pretty fly … and this is coming from a guy who knows a thing or two about flyness. So when the stunning vixen shared her “7 Rules of Attraction” with Best Life Magazine for Men’s Health, I had to share it with the rest of my fly community. Here’s what turns her on in a man.

After a long day of pushing myself creatively, I decided to step away from the computer and head to one of my favorite lounges to have a drink. So my cousin and I drove over, but to our surprise, the place was unusually packed for a Monday night. Normally this would have upset me—since I don’t like being around a lot of people when I’m trying to relax –but tonight was different.