Here’s the scenario: You woke up this morning lying next to someone other than your significant other. Now your first thoughts were probably somewhere along the lines of: “F@*K!!!! … What am I doing here??? And how did my underwear get stuck in the ceiling fan???” (Hey, it happens.)

I’ve often wondered how far someone would go to gain forgiveness after cheating. Well, a man in Virginia tested the scope of my thinking on the subject by standing on the corner during morning rush hour with a sign that said “I cheated. This is my punishment.” His wife agreed to take him back if he wore the sign all week.

No one wants to be cheated on … and I mean no one. In fact, I can’t think of a single thing more painful than discovering that your loved one is intimately involved with someone else. (Well maybe watching a movie starring Ben Affleck …that’s also pretty painful.)

As I prepare for my annual series on cheating, I felt the need to get the pulse of the people. For most, the idea of getting caught is enough to steer you away from being unfaithful in your relationship. But what if there was absolutely no way that you could get caught?

Dear Fly Guy, The last three women that I have been romantically involved with have all been married. The first two both got a divorce and we had a regular relationship, but neither worked out. This most recent one hasn’t turned romantic yet, but I’m pretty sure it will head in that direction. What I want to know is why do I keep ending up with women who aren’t single?

Now that you’ve made it through the first two phases of my cheating seminar, a decision must now be made. But before you decided whether to stay or leave, you must ask yourself the following four questions…
1. What If There Was No Cheating?
If you’ve exhausted all possible avenues only to discover no cheating occurred, then [...]

Have you ever been in a public bathroom and just took a quick moment to observe the writing on the wall? (I mean seriously, who is Big Daddy D, and why does he want everyone to know that he hangs out in the mall bathroom?) But Big Daddy D aside, there’s plenty of symbolism in [...]