No one wants to be cheated on … and I mean no one. In fact, I can’t think of a single thing more painful than discovering that your loved one is intimately involved with someone else. (Well maybe watching a movie starring Ben Affleck …that’s also pretty painful.)

But Affleck’s poor acting aside, this whole cheating concept has really been on my mind a lot lately. It probably has something to do with the countless emails I get from those either currently going through or just coming out of a relationship filled with lies and infidelity. Now I know in the past we’ve discussed the proper response when you uncover a cheater. But we’ve never dealt with one very extreme circumstance—the one where you actually catch them in the act. What would you do? Vote, and then explain your reasoning.