I’m exhausted. After months of begging, pleading, compromising, bending over backwards, and over compensating, I’m officially done. It’s become abundantly clear that I’ll never be good enough for you … no correction; I’ll never be good enough for your friends.

Look in my eyes and tell me the truth. Can we still make this thing work? Now before you answer, I want you to place my personal feelings aside. Why? Well, I know how we can sometimes hide the truth in fear of hurting one another, and I don’t want that to be your concern today … I just need to know the truth.

So I’m sitting at dinner last night with a woman who to me was brimming with potential. She was smart, successful, driven, funny, and incredibly beautiful. She even possessed those character traits that I prefer, but aren’t necessarily deal breakers: she liked to travel, was knowledgeable about sports, and even preferred using Lever 2000 over other soap brands.

Please pray for me. In two weeks, I’ve been asked to speak to a group of young people on the art of the break up. The Fly Guy’s Official Break Up Course is something that everyone should attend at some point. I mean let’s face it, it’s better to part ways the right way, instead [...]