Now that you’ve made it through the first two phases of my cheating seminar, a decision must now be made. But before you decided whether to stay or leave, you must ask yourself the following four questions… 1. What If There Was No Cheating? If you’ve exhausted all possible avenues only to discover no cheating [...]

Have you ever been in a public bathroom and just took a quick moment to observe the writing on the wall? (I mean seriously, who is Big Daddy D, and why does he want everyone to know that he hangs out in the mall bathroom?) But Big Daddy D aside, there’s plenty of symbolism in [...]

I’m exhausted right now. Literally every part of my mind, body and spirit feels about as beat as a Naomi Campbell personal assistant. But that’s not going to stop the Fly Guy Express. There’s still work to be done before 2006 is officially dead and buried. It’s time I revealed exactly what’s hot and what’s [...]

I’m Sorry. It’s just two words. But there they stand. Tall. Powerful. And able to save your relationship….if you use them the right way. Today’s lesson: apology etiquette. It’s time I revealed the three key elements when apologizing to that special someone. Now this may require taking some notes.

Please pray for me. In two weeks, I’ve been asked to speak to a group of young people on the art of the break up. The Fly Guy’s Official Break Up Course is something that everyone should attend at some point. I mean let’s face it, it’s better to part ways the right way, instead [...]

Let’s flash back for a minute. In Volume Four of the Fly Guy Chronicles, I detailed some of the top warning signs that your significant other might be crazy. I also asked for you to send in some additional warning signs based on your experiences. The response was phenomenal and your emails were hilarious. Here [...]

Why didn’t you tell me I was being selfish? Every week I get so caught up in talking about my love life that I haven’t spent enough time helping you with yours. But today is a brand new day, and I’m about to save your life. How? By giving you three surefire signs that your [...]

You can see it all over my face. It’s always been that way. And as much as I try to fight it, I’ve never been really good at masking my emotions. So you can imagine my face when the call came through… (Note: the names have been changed to protect my friends) “Yo” “Fly Guy, [...]

I don’t smoke. But after the day I just had, it doesn’t seem like such a bad idea. You should have seen me. I had the latest installment of the Fly Guy Chronicles all ready to be sent out ahead of schedule. Life couldn’t have been better. And then the phone rang. (I’m still kicking [...]

Who are you supposed to be? I probably get asked that question at least four or five times a day, so at this point I’m used to it. I stopped allowing it to get under my skin a long time ago. Here are the facts. I am a love expert…one with no formal training I [...]