Pop quiz: “What’s the correct way to ask a woman out on a date?” Now the average man has been approaching women since around age 12 (and some of us much earlier), but there still seems to be a lack of clear understanding on the proper way to ask a woman out.

Can I ask you a personal question? Don’t worry, your answer will be kept between you, me, and whoever else decides to read this: Have you ever been cheated on before? Well judging from the letters and emails that I receive daily, it sure seems that way.

I love you. At some point, we all dream of having those three words lavished upon us by a significant other. But what happens when you start dating someone that drops the “L” bomb on you a little too soon? If faced with such an unfortunate predicament, then immediately resort to the following “5 Ways To Avoid Saying I Love You.”

Christmas is rapidly approaching, and you still have no clue what to get your significant other. There’s no need to get anxious though, as I’ve designed a nice guide to direct you through this tedious process.

She said that trust didn’t matter. In her eyes, as long as he said, “I love you,” and came home at night, then she could deal with the lies and the infidelity. Trust just wasn’t on the top of her priority list. Sound Familiar?

Dear Fly Guy,

My girlfriend and I are having some serious communication issues right now. It seems like the longer we’ve been together, the harder it is for us to talk about anything. I know that we both love each other, but things just feel so forced right now. I really wish there was a way for us to get this part of our relationship turned around. Any suggestions?

Dear Fly Guy, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now, and for the most part things have been great. In my heart, I really believe that he’s the one for me. Recently we had a talk about marriage, and I told him that I wanted us to be engaged by [...]

With Valentine’s Day rapidly approaching, I think it’s time for me to once again share a recipe out of my trusted Fly Guy cookbook. So if your plans include a romantic evening at home, try this pomegranate-orange martini. It should serve as the perfect nightcap.

Why won’t you call me back? From a guy’s perspective, we probably hear that question more often than Bobby Brown gets read his rights. And while Bobby’s behavior and criminal record probably have no rhyme or reason, the psychology behind a guy not calling you back most certainly does. Don’t believe me? Well check out [...]

Back in 1998, Angela Bassett made it okay for a black woman to get her groove back. Fast forward to nine years later and the trend of older women dating younger men has become more popular than white celebrities adopting children from Africa. If you’ve finally grown tired of sitting on the sidelines while the [...]