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The Lies That Men Tell (Here We Go Again)

I ran across this book yesterday titled “101 Lies That Men Tell Women” by Dory Hollander. After reading it, I have to say………………………. I found it extremely intriguing to say the least. Not because I took any sort of pleasure from an entire book dedicated to blasting us men (because believe me I didn’t.) In fact, it was the exact opposite.

Is It Ok To Have A Back Up Plan?

So I’m sitting at dinner last night with a woman who to me was brimming with potential. She was smart, successful, driven, funny, and incredibly beautiful. She even possessed those character traits that I prefer, but aren’t necessarily deal breakers: she liked to travel, was knowledgeable about sports, and even preferred using Lever 2000 over other soap brands.

Strictly For The Ladies

A friend just text me this quote of the day, and I immediately knew that the women of this site would appreciate it. To the men that frequent Fly Guy Land on the regular, don’t worry; our day is coming. But today belongs to our beautiful women. So ladies, kick back and get your Labor Day weekend off on the right foot with this quote of the day.

This Is What She Wants

A close friend just sent me an email that I wanted to share with you. What initially began as careless scribbles on her notepad, ended up as a beautiful expression of one woman’s wants and desires … not from Mr. Right, but from love in general. I’m sure more than a few men and women can relate to her thoughts. I look forward to reading your feedback

Can A Man Really Express Heartbreak?

There was no mistaking the words pumping out of my speakers. These were the distinctive sounds of a man experiencing a foreign emotion. Heartbreak. “She said that she would be with me forever,” he lamented. “She said I’m in love with you. She said now baby don’t forget … that no one’s going to love you more than I do.”

Do You Really Love Yourself? Then Prove It.

Every morning that I rise and attempt to put pen to pad with this column, I do so for one reason only: I love you. With every ounce of my being, I love each and every person that has ever set their eyes on my work—whether they liked it or not.

If I Promised You The World…Would You Give Me A Chance?

I want to be with you. That much I do know. Your grace, your style; the way you walk and talk … hell, I even like the way you chew on those cheddar biscuits from Red Lobster. As far as I’m concerned, you’re precisely what I want in my life. There’s just one thing that’s holding me back from wholeheartedly pursuing you though…

Is She Too Independent?

I knew it was serious when she called me by my real name. “D, I need to talk to you.” I dropped my pen, looked over, and tried to read her expression to see if maybe I was the source of her angst. I wasn’t. “I’m serious. I really need to talk to you about something important.”

How She Wants To Be Kissed

I’m pretty sure she wants me to kiss her. I mean let’s look at the facts. She’s fumbling with her keys at the door after our date. She keeps reapplying her lip gloss. And then, she’s always smiling and nervously looking away. These are all clear cut signs that she wants me to plant one on her right? And let’s not forget the time she said, “Well, why don’t you kiss me already?” I consider that to be a pretty positive development.

We Need To Communicate More

You’ve checked back in with me from time to time, and I’ve given you the exact same thing. “She’s In Love With Another Man,” with no new content. You’ve even voiced your concerns to me through private emails, the likes of which were wide-ranging…

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