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Stop Ignoring The Signs

Life is all about signs. Signs of impending danger (Warning, Caution, Beware of Dogs); Signs of advancing age (gray hair, sagging breast, arthritis); and signs of impending life change (a late menstrual cycle, a disapproving look from your boss, or rising gas prices.) But what about the signs that enter your personal life?

Will He Ever Marry You?

You and your man may be a better match than gold diggers and NBA All Star Weekend; but that won’t make him propose. Psychologist Alon Gratch, Ph.D., reveals the things that will.

The Struggle Within

She hit a nerve. I’m not precisely sure of the exact moment of contact, but somehow, someway she managed to strike a chord deep within me. I’m intrigued by her.

“Wait … did I just say that?”

The Relationship Con Artist

For a long time, I was a con artist. But it had nothing to do with me deceiving my loved ones or even preying on unsuspecting strangers. Instead, it was a classic case of me pulling the wool over my own eyes. That’s right, I was conning myself.

The Beauty Of You

I need someone out there to really open up their heart and hear me out. I’m not sure who this is supposed to help, but I wouldn’t be me if I kept this within.There have been times during life’s journey where I’ve honestly felt like I had nothing left to give. It may have been a week where I didn’t get an encouraging word, or a pat on the back…

I Don’t Love You Back

Here’s the scenario: You’ve been dating this person for quite a while now, and things are going great. You’ve tried your best to take things one day at a time, but your mate doesn’t live by that same creed. Over dinner one night, he or she looks you in eyes and says, “I love you.”

You Don’t Have To Do This Alone

I wanted to share my morning inspiration with the sincere hope that it helps you as much as it did me. Some of you may find yourselves stuck in seemingly hopeless situations, with no clear cut path or plan on how to improve your current situation.

You Might Be A Stalker If…

I was randomly surfing the net today when I came across this passionate note on Facebook. The subject was so compelling that I just had to share it with you. While I was personally amused by the desperation that men and women can show on Myspace, Facebook, and all of the other social networking sites that exist, I also felt the pain of the author of the piece.

The Showdown: Men vs. Women

Before I begin my upcoming series on the psychology of men and women as it pertains to dating and relationships, I thought I’d share this hilarious perspective on the subject.

Behind every great joke, priceless nuggets of wisdom can be found when listening to comedian Dave Chappelle. The following clip is no exception, as Chappelle effortlessly weaves his way through various topics which are very relevant to our ongoing debate between the sexes.

Looking For Daddy

Fly Intro: Here’s a guest feature from a talented writer, Darryl James, who delves into the absentee father debate that continues to rage on within the black community. Read, comment, and share your thoughts on his passionate post.

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