Getting Her Attention

Dear Fly Guy,

There is this girl that I tend to always bump into out on the networking scene. She has got to be the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life. Most men shy away from even approaching her and I’ve kind of followed suit. She just seems too beautiful to ever be interested in me or anyone else regular for that matter. What is your take on this, and how can I gain the confidence to get her to notice me. Thanks.

Am I Too Jealous?

Dear Fly Guy,
I need help with trusting my wife. I know that she loves me and regards me as the man of her dreams, but every time we get around other men, I’m afraid she’s looking at them. She’s a very beautiful woman, and commands a great amount of attention whenever she enters a room, [...]

What’s His Problem?

Dear Fly Guy,
I’ve been with my boyfriend for the past two years, and he is just so hard to talk to. It seems like no matter what we are talking about, he just doesn’t want to be serious. He also never wants to talk about our future. When I try to ask him how he [...]

Does She Love Me?

Dear Fly Guy,
I’ve been a faithful reader since day one, so I hope I’ve finally earned a chance to get my question featured. Here’s my problem. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 months now, and I’ve fallen madly in love with her. The problem is that everytime I tell her that [...]

The Instigator

Dear Fly Guy,
Before I begin, I just wanted to say that I really love your column. I definitely look forward to your good advice and humor each week. I need your help though. I’ve been with my boyfriend for the past 2 years, and we recently decided to move in together. All of a sudden, [...]

The Confession

Dear Fly Guy,
I have to be honest with you. I really feel like you’ve been speaking directly to me in your series on commitment. I never thought I suffered from commitment anxiety until I started viewing it from your perspective. I guess my father didn’t exactly provide a great example of what commitment was all [...]

Responding to the Hater

Dear Fly Guy,
I read your column every week and I just don’t get it. Why are people continuing to write into you every week? There’s nothing really special about what you’re doing. I mean you’re a great writer and you do crack a good joke every now and then, but what makes you an [...]

Commitment Issues

Dear Fly Guy,
For the past year, I have given my heart and soul to my girlfriend. From the moment I saw her, I was completely convinced that she was the one for me. There was even a point where we had casual conversations about possibly tying the knot one day. It’s funny how things can [...]

Cannon’s Concern

Dear Fly Guy,
I must say that normally I’m right in line with all of your relationship views, but last week you really threw me for a loop. Your piece on regular people was in my opinion extremely offensive. There is nothing wrong with being regular. This world would be a much better place if there [...]

A Chat with Gabby

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Dear Fly Guy,
A friend recently shared your column with me, and I instantly fell in love with it. Your advice is funny, on point, and you don’t come off too preachy. I just wanted to ask you about a response you gave to one of your readers in Volume 14. You said you didn’t [...]