Too Soon?

Dear Fly Guy: Do you believe in love at first sight? Well, I met my current boyfriend two days ago, and from the moment we saw each other, I knew he was the one. He proposed to me on our first date, and I accepted. My family thinks I’m crazy, but I know he’s my soul mate. What do you think?

The Regular Guys

My friends and I consider ourselves to be regular guys. We’re respectful, make decent salaries, and are overall good guys. So why are we all still single? When are the regular people gonna start getting some love? Help me out, because while my boys are cool, I’d like to switch it up from time to time and enjoy the company of a beautiful woman.

Uncovering My Husband’s Secret

Dear Fly Guy, I just found a book that my husband is writing that’s basically his life story, just under a different name. It’s obviously not done yet, but I’m really upset right now.

I Can’t Believe She Did This

I asked my girlfriend of six years to marry me, and she said no. When I asked why, she simply said that she wasn’t ready. I’m so confused by this. How much time does she really needs to fully commit to me??? What are your thoughts Fly Guy? Do I need to start thinking about Plan B?

My Ex Won’t Go Away!

Dear Fly Guy, I had a strange relationship with my ex, which eventually came to an end. After initially attempting to be civil, I finally got to the point where I had enough and asked him to stop contacting me. He wouldn’t listen though. At first I took the diplomatic approach, and then I tried the “Super B*tch” approach, but he still refused to stop.

I Can’t Stop Dating Married Women

Dear Fly Guy, The last three women that I have been romantically involved with have all been married. The first two both got a divorce and we had a regular relationship, but neither worked out. This most recent one hasn’t turned romantic yet, but I’m pretty sure it will head in that direction. What I want to know is why do I keep ending up with women who aren’t single?

Balancing Business and Pleasure

How do you balance your life as “The Fly Guy” with your own personal love life? The reason I’m asking is because my boyfriend is also in the entertainment industry, and he always gives me the “I’m too busy” line when it’s time for us to be together. Is there a way for us to create some type of balance in our relationship, or should I just settle for being the mistress to his real woman, which seems to be his career?

A Communication Gap

Dear Fly Guy,

My girlfriend and I are having some serious communication issues right now. It seems like the longer we’ve been together, the harder it is for us to talk about anything. I know that we both love each other, but things just feel so forced right now. I really wish there was a way for us to get this part of our relationship turned around. Any suggestions?

Will He Ever Grow Up?

Dear Fly Guy,
I’m stuck in a love triangle and I want out. The creepy thing is that the other woman is my boyfriend’s mother. I’m 34 years old, and have never dated a man who was this close to his mother before. They talk at least 10 to 15 times a day, and when they [...]

Did He Play Me?

Dear Fly Guy,
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now, and for the most part things have been great. In my heart, I really believe that he’s the one for me. Recently we had a talk about marriage, and I told him that I wanted us to be engaged by October. [...]