Dear Fly Guy, I’m sure you’ve heard this same question a million times before, but I need you to answer it for me. I’m a single, successful woman and I just don’t understand why it’s so hard to find a man. I don’t want to put anyone else down, but it seems like women who are less deserving always end up with the good man. Is there something wrong with me?

What’s Up Fly Guy, I notice that you feature music a lot on your site, so I’m hoping that you can help me. My wife and I have been together for about 5 years now, and we’re always playing music when it’s time to set the mood. The only problem is that Maxwell’s first album just doesn’t have the same effect that it used to. Can you help us?

Hi Fly Guy, I’m currently pregnant and the father of the child is my ex-boyfriend. I’ve since moved on, and my new boyfriend says he doesn’t care about me being pregnant by another man. My new man actually wants to take care of the child, while my ex wants me to have an abortion. What should I do?

Dear Fly Guy, Okay so, there’s this guy that I had a crush on for over a decade. We always stayed in contact though both of us were in separate relationships. Once we were single, we decided to become more than” friends,” but without a “title.” At first, it was a long distance thing, as we didn’t want to rush things.

Hi Fly Guy, My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. About 4 months ago, I moved to a different state to be with him and we moved in together. There’s been talk of marriage and I know he has been ring shopping. My boyfriend though is addicted to playing video games. He stays up all night, 4-5 times a week playing video games. When I say all night, I mean ALL NIGHT.

Dear Fly Guy, I have a problem which may or may not be common. On the inside, I’m a sweet, give-until-I-have-no-more, take care of you, type of person. Yet when I meet guys and spend time with them, I put up this mean, bitchy, cynical front. This is my wall to avoid getting hurt.

Dear Fly Guy, I have a serious problem. I thought I found Mr. Right, but recently discovered he has bad credit!!! I don’t want to seem materialistic, but having good credit is a big deal to me. I can’t see myself settling down with a man who’s going to be irresponsible with his finances.

Dear Fly Guy, I’ve been following your work for quite some time, and I have to give you props on discussing relationships in an unbiased way. When the fellas are out of line, you call us out; but you also do the same to the women. I have to wonder though if the women are really listening to you.

Dear Fly Guy, This is embarrassing to admit, but I’m having a real hard time meeting new women. It isn’t because I’m unattractive either; I just think I’m addicted to masturbation. Whenever my boys are trying to go out, I come up with some reason to stay home and watch porn.

Dear Fly Guy, I need help with trusting my wife. I know that she loves me and regards me as the man of her dreams, but every time we get around other men, I’m afraid she’s looking at them. She’s a very beautiful woman, and commands a great amount of attention whenever she enters a room, which is a bit unnerving.