Dear Fly Guy, I love your column, and could really use your help. I’m not sure how to say this delicately, so I’ll just come right out with it. I HATE MY HUSBAND. I despise everything about him, and I’m appalled at the woman I’ve become since we’ve been married.

Dear Fly Guy, I have to say that I’m quite disappointed in you and your extended absence. I used to look forward to your daily love advice, and now I’ve been forced to listen to a bunch of people that have no idea what they’re talking about. Why did you leave us Fly Guy? We needed you.

Dear Fly Guy, I just found out that I have an STD. I have been with the same man for 2 years in what I thought was a monogamous relationship. I have not been with anyone else, even during the 4-month period that he had broken up with me. He is denying it, telling me I gave it to him.

Dear Fly Guy, I need some relationship advice. Most women give men a hard time when it comes to committing to them, but I’m the exact opposite. When I commit to a woman, she has my heart forever. My problem is that my loyalty may be causing me to give my woman more leeway than she probably deserves.

Hey Fly Guy, I wanted to know how would you go about asking out a person of the same sex. I have a coworker who is female and I swear she is one of the baddest females I’ve ever seen in LA. I notice her noticing me sometimes, but I’m thinking maybe it’s all in my head. Got any advice?

Dear Fly Guy, I have a situation. Here goes: I have genital herpes, and have had it for the last 13 years. I am on daily suppression medication and go to regular doctor visits. I contracted it from my live-in boyfriend via oral; he had a cold sore on his lip, performed oral on me and presto!

What’s Up Fly Guy, I have read your articles and I’m an avid reader. I must say that coming to your website has been really interesting. Here is my situation: I just recently became single, after being with someone off and on for like 5 years. I tried to work on things with her, but she had a serious addiction to alcohol that I just couldn’t deal with.

Dear Fly Guy, I met a really nice guy a few months ago through a reputable dating site, and we have been emailing and conversing ever since. He works 11:30am to 8pm Mon-Fri so I call the company that he works for, and they call him to the phone. He also calls me several times throughout the day. But as soon as 8pm comes I don’t hear from him or even get a text for the rest of the night.

Dear Fly Guy, As I write this letter, I’m one step away from completely giving up on love. I’m not sure what I hope to get out of writing this, but here I am just writing away. My problem is that I really don’t understand why I always end up meeting men who never want to be serious.

Hey Fly Guy, I have more of a comment than a question. I just don’t understand why some women think that men want to settle down with someone who acts like a bitch? Who started that rumor, because it’s completely wrong.