For the most part, my family supports my career from a distance. They aren’t the type that constantly call or email, looking for ways to influence the trajectory of my life as the Fly Guy. I love that about them. So when I received an email yesterday from my cousin Ben with the subject heading, “Possible Fly Guy Topic,” I knew that it demanded my attention.

Inside was a video link to a song by alternative R&B artists Rock City. The song, “You Gotta Go” found the group remixing John Legend’s “Green Light” in a successful attempt at discussing what happens once the one-night stand ends. That concept alone flooded my mind with a host of questions that I need the Fly Guy community to clarify their positions on.

Today’s Fly Questions of the Day

Have you ever experienced a one-night stand that went terribly wrong?

Have you ever used sex to advance the relationship? (i.e. I’m going to give him some, so he will be my man. Be honest.)

Have you ever used a one-night stand to get back at a loved one?

In today’s climate of rampant STDs, are one-night stands still a viable option?

If you could choose one person to have a one-night stand with, who would it be and why?

Check Out Rock City’s “You Gotta Go”

The women of Danity Kane recently stopped by Fly Guy TV to discuss love and relationships, and boy did they have a lot to say on the subject. So make sure you check out this exclusive interview where the “Making the Band” stars share with the Fly Guy everything from how men approach them, to the perfect way to heal from a broken heart.

Ice Cube recently stopped by Fly Guy TV to talk love and relationships. No stone was left unturned as the entertainment mogul discussed the change in women once he became famous, and how he considered himself blessed to find his soul mate early on.

With the hit military comedy movie Tropic Thunder opening in theaters across the nation this week, funnyman Brandon T. Jackson decided to drop by Fly Guy TV to share why this movie is the perfect date option. Check out what he had to say, and check out Tropic Thunder. It’s a pretty funny flick.

On this week’s edition of Fly Guy TV, the beautiful, incomparable Chilli stops by to break down love and relationships in unforgettable fashion. You’ll be kicking yourself if you miss the chance to hear the views of this talented, single mother as she discusses everything from her dating pet peeves to why she thinks men cheat more. It’s all here on Fly Guy TV.

Have you ever met someone who initially seemed cool, only to have them flip the script and become entirely too aggressive? And then when you tried to create some space, they tried even harder? Well on today’s episode of Fly Guy TV, we deal with that very topic. After watching the episode, share your own “get the point” dating stories.

Today’s episode of Fly Guy TV finds me catching up with Slim of platinum-selling recording group 112. Buoyed by the success of his first single, “So Fly” featuring Yung Joc and Shawty Lo, Slim is currently gearing up for a massive solo campaign. His hectic schedule didn’t prevent him from stopping by Fly Guy TV though, as he was more than ready to share his views on life, love and relationships.

Listen to Slim’s “So Fly” featuring Yung Joc and Shawty Lo

The beautiful Gina Ravera, talented co-star of the TNT hit series “The Closer,” stopped by Fly Guy headquarters to share her views on the value of communication within a relationship. But the talking that Ravera spoke of wasn’t confined to just the flowery “I love yous” that we’re all accustomed to. Instead, Ravera tackled the tough conversations that must be had in any serious relationship (i.e. Are you HIV positive?)

So check out what Ravera had to say, and when you’re finished, make sure you catch the season premiere of “The Closer,” tonight at 9pm on TNT.

Gina Ravera on The Importance Of Talking

Check Out The Official Promo of The Closer Season 4

I ran into my boy Musiq Soulchild this weekend at the Essence Music Festival, and he wanted to give my readers a Fly Guy dating tip for the week. Check out what he had to say, and let me know if you agree with his tip.

While we wait for the release of Musiq’s latest album, let’s check out his new single “Radio.”
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So I recently went on this date, and things were pretty cool. She was beautiful, smart, funny; basically all of the things you’d initially hope for when getting to know someone. As the evening progressed, things kind of went south … but admittedly, it was my fault. Check out what happened, and learn this valuable Fly Guy dating tip, so it never happens to you.