Dear Fly Guy, I met a really nice guy a few months ago through a reputable dating site, and we have been emailing and conversing ever since. He works 11:30am to 8pm Mon-Fri so I call the company that he works for, and they call him to the phone. He also calls me several times throughout the day. But as soon as 8pm comes I don’t hear from him or even get a text for the rest of the night.

Loneliness…It’s an emotion that’s never really welcomed, but sometimes needed. Moments in life arise where it’s actually healthy to experience the emptiness of having no one in your life. In those painfully uncomfortable moments, you’re granted the solitude to reconnect with faith, reconnect with life, and reconnect with your unique understanding of who you are and what you want.

So Tiger Woods finally made a public appearance to give the world the apology they’ve so desperately been waiting for. In the aftermath, while commentators analyzed the sincerity of his words, I could only sit back and laugh. Why you may ask? Well, that wasn’t the real apology—at least not the one that Tiger was initially prepared to give.

The following is a piece of much-needed ammunition for the fellas. Tired of getting sucked into tough conversations with your significant other? Well no worries, as we’ve enlisted a female spy to provide tips on how to spot and avoid those serious conversations. Take note, and make sure you pass it on to your fellow man.

Time to take things up a notch with the following feature by writer Terry Shropshire. Apparently, Terry got tired of the double standard that he witnesses on a daily basis as it pertains to interracial dating among black people. I mean let’s be honest; if I posted pictures of me with a new white girlfriend, I’m sure that I’d probably lose some of my black female readers.

I’ve always done my best to support dope writers, and this moment is no different. Our featured writer for today has crafted a very honest response to Hollywood’s role in the stunted growth of positive, healthy relationships. Enjoy her words, and when you’re done, make sure you support the writer.

I ran across a feature today that I wanted to share. In it, the piece describes 50 things that women wish men knew. After reading the list, I was a bit confused because I honestly thought that there was one thing that women wished men knew … and that’s how to be psychic.

Is it really possible for one celebrity couple to be hotter than the next? Well that’s today’s million dollar question. When it comes to some of today’s hottest couples, who gets crowned homecoming king and queen in your world? Read the profiles and vote below.

If you’re in Atlanta, it’s time for you to brave the cold and join me for a night of music, poetry and love. That’s right; I’ve decided to dust off my MC hat as I guide the audience at Kat’s Café through a night of audio love. So make sure you finish your work early today so you can go home, change your clothes, and meet me for an unforgettable evening.

I will never forget her name. It was Jai Miller*. In my mind, she was the perfect woman: beautiful, smart, funny … in short, she epitomized the prototype André 3000 so often sang about. Of course, we were only 16 at the time of our initial encounter, but that didn’t matter. In my pubescent mind, Jai was hands down the crème de la crème.