Approaching A Woman…When I'm A Woman

Jun 30th, 2010 | Author: | Category: Fly Letters
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Hey Fly Guy,

I wanted to know how would you go about asking out a person of the same sex. I have a coworker who is female and I swear she is one of the baddest females I’ve ever seen in LA. I notice her noticing me sometimes, but I’m thinking maybe it’s all in my head. Got any advice?

Loveless in LA

Dear Loveless in LA,

I’m far from an expert when it comes to giving same sex love advice, but I guess it was bound to happen at some point. I’m actually of the school of thought that people are just people. I really don’t think there’s a special way to approach someone just because they’re the same sex. For my money, honesty and being yourself always win—no matter who you’re addressing. Today’s dating world lacks any semblance of realness, so if you bring that to the table, then you already have a leg up on the competition. So just be yourself, and let the chips fall where they may. If she’s digging you, then she’ll let you know … if she’s not, then you still have nothing to be ashamed of based on your approach. I hope this helps.

The Fly Guy

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  • How cute!

    I think you should make sure you give her direct eye contact whenever you pass her in the hallway or when you say “Good morning” etc. Oh and make sure you smile. That’s how some/most women display their interest, by smiling (or is it just me?) If she smiles back and gives you eye contact also, then it’s safe to move a step forward. Maybe a date?

    Just keep speaking to her cordially until you/she feels comfortable to talk about you BOTH together.

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    Yup, smiling and eye contact. Then again, I’m not sure what goes on with same sex couples. I saw a white lady MACKING and I mean MACKING other girls on the Tyra show. She was just walking around New York pulling chicks left and right…and these were women on the street. Black girls, asian women, she was successful getting 4 out of 5 numbers and she had no idea rather or not the women were bisexual or lesbians.