Comments on: Rapid Fire Love, May 10th

By: Third_Of_August

Third_Of_August — Tue, 25 May 2010 11:49:24 +0000

#1: Well, in most of the places I’ve been, the women have pretty much not been on the same page as me. That doesn’t necessarily mean they suck, but when you end up on the alone side of the coin all the time….You gotta wonder what the damn issue is.

#2: No comment. I know I don’t want any woman calling me Daddy either. Especially since I neither have nor want children.

#3: I know when women aren’t feeling me. I practically can smell it…..I virtually expect it to happen….almost to the point where some people have accused me of giving up too soon in the approaching stages of the game.

By: Adriii

Adriii — Tue, 25 May 2010 05:20:38 +0000

#2: Probably inspired by the Usher song? I find it disturbing, but in a recent convo with a friend found she quite liked it, so…

#3: I’ve dated quite a few guys I didn’t even like because I hadn’t met anyone I wanted to date and thought I was being too closed minded. I wasn’t though. Turns out they were whack, too.
AND I apologize to women being repeatedly harassed and men wasting years being shut down because I have been part of the problem. My b.

By: Adriii

Adriii — Tue, 25 May 2010 05:17:14 +0000

#1: I think the States is the only country (or one of the few countries) where at 18 years old, a person can be completely financially independent and live their own life miles away from their family without the help of roommates or university housing. That’s made us a society of individualists which is bad news for romantic relationships, if you ask me. Partners seem to be treated as disposable and not really necessary for one’s progress forward.

This isn’t everyone of course. There are many who find partnership. It’s just that you might have to pull more marbles than you’d hoped out of that bag before you get one that is looking for a romantic mate. Then you gotta find out if you guys are even compatible.

Man, that sounds like a lot of work. Sorry about that, but it’s the truth.

By: bogart4017

bogart4017 — Tue, 18 May 2010 16:41:15 +0000

@ bullet #1-i guess we gotta move back to the country (lol).
@bullet #2-i strongly dislike that papi mess. And daddy? That is so 50s/60s its hard to believe women still do that. Just don’t call me sweetie—that shit i hate!
@bullet #3-some of us receive mixed messages. I can’t tell you how many times i’ve heard women say how persistance pays off for them. No wonder you can’t get rid of homie—he heard what you said. Me? I can tell in a minute if a women don’t want it from me and i don’t waste my time.

By: OneWhoLovesLove

OneWhoLovesLove — Fri, 14 May 2010 13:39:21 +0000

Bullet #1- This country has been brainwashed into allowing society to tell us what we should look like, how we should love, who we should love, etc., etc. Reset your way of thinking and let your heart show you the way to do all of the above.

Bullet #2- To each his own. Let people call their significant other whatever it is that they want! At least the young lady asked before doing so. Telling people what they should and should not call THEIR partner is absurd. Please stay out of my bedroom!

Bullet #3- I agree, both men and women are guilty of this! Neither party is out running the other. We’re all human and in some time or another we think we can “change” people’s minds. That’s a bullet we’ll all get hit with!

Overall- If we ALL minded our own business when it came to love, the world would be a better place! So what if I loved Jesse, “The no-having job, three baby mama, wanna be a rapper, still living in his mother’s basement,” having self. Technically, that would be my love situation, NOT YOURS!!!!
* Not the case, but if it was…..SO WHAT?!?!?!?!

I wish you all real, genuine, make ya spirit dance and soul smile kind of love!!!!

By: DB.

DB. — Thu, 13 May 2010 13:05:25 +0000

Bullet#1:
I’m not from an American city but this happens everywhere! (although it comes across as if it happens more in America)

It seems like people are brainwashing themselves and others. It can even start at a young age. Most women don’t realize that when they talk about how a man did them wrong in front of a child or a adolescent, they tend to remember those small talk and it makes it possible for one bad guy to confirm that picture they’ve had in their mind and/or been hearing all along (same goes for men badmouthing women).

I understand that some want to protect themselves from making the same mistakes but keep an open mindset… Eventhough I have had my share of unworthy men, I can’t say that men are dumb or whatever (unless I’m joking or a guy pisses me off lol), because I just know that some wonderful men do exist (I know for a fact that my brothers are one of them and as long as they treat their SO right, I still see hope… If they don’t, they better run ’cause I’m not taking that bull… lol)

This reminds me of the discussion with Third Of August (but if I remember correctly that was slightly different)

Bullet#2:
A couple years ago I was walking down the street with a guy who I had my eye on. He said he heard someone yelling papi (daddy) and thought it was referred to him. I knew he was joking (with his big smile) but it rubbed me the wrong way (there are some men that still want to be called daddy… I’m thankful he wasn’t one of them)

I just don’t understand as a female why you would want to call someone daddy?

Bullet#3:
LOL! True! I wonder why they sometimes overlook that important aspect??? Even when I’m sending a text to someone I’m really feeling at the moment, I still screen my messages so that I probably won’t regret my text. And if I think that a guy is feeling me, I definately screen his text…

By: amia550

amia550 — Tue, 11 May 2010 16:13:01 +0000

FG … all three were very good ones! Luckily i didn’t need my bulletproof vest for this post. : )

I definitely agree with Bullet #1 –point blank… we can’t see a good man/woman bc we do not believe they exist..
Bullet #2 Daddy??? really??? is this the Playboy mansion and was she a “dumb blonde” ? I can’t believe that calling you “daddy” was something she thought a man would have wanted…
Bullet #3 I need for you to put this one on a billboard somewhere… IF A WOMAN REFERS TO YOU AS BUDDY, FRIEND, HOMIE…. IT MEANS JUST THAT! THATS ALL YOU WILL BE TO HER! I call this guy im talking to “buddy” in every text or phone call but he insists on trying to take it further.. Now if in my texts i refer to you as “babe’ or “honey” … you are someone i am interested in… ; )

Thanks FG

By: MadScientist7

MadScientist7 — Mon, 10 May 2010 19:33:53 +0000

you know as far as bullet number 3 i used to have that problem a lot. guys are just bad overall i guess at picking up subtle clues that women use.