Comments on: A Message To Scorned Women: Chill Out

By: sick n tired

sick n tired — Wed, 29 Sep 2010 00:12:03 +0000

Crap. Just realized how old this thread is, so I must be distraught. Never mind.

By: sick n tired

sick n tired — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 23:30:09 +0000

Women always make the mistake of going after the other woman and throwing a hissy fit. I see it on that TV show “Cheaters” all the time. It’s misdirected anger. In most cases, the other woman is clueless. I’m all about telling the other women whether it hurts them or not. Men who lie deserve to be exposed. In my case, he had several women friends that once were sexual and bragged about how it was OK because they were his past. Little do they know that they’re friend, at one time or another, was two-faced and shared some pretty private information about them with me just to make me feel bigger and better. Am I a victim? NO. I’m a justice seeker.

By: Jane Gerard

Jane Gerard — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 13:48:39 +0000

I just got a message from a scorned woman using the exact same words..hell hath no path as a woman scorned..didnt know either what it really meant, she is my boyfriends ex wife and out to harras me hurt me and make my life a living hell, the fact that my boyfriend left her before he got involved with me doesnt matter and she doesnt know me at all..I am aware of her now and watch we I am going..too bad she puts all this energy into hurting me instead of moving on with her life…

By: Nikki Nice

Nikki Nice — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 22:02:30 +0000

OMG! I def. agree! I always tell men that I date that same thing! KEEP IT REAL WITH ME! Let me know what you’re truly looking for…let me know that you’re dating other women and that you have no intentions on just being exclusive! As long as you jeeo it real you, the MAN, will never be wrong. If you keep it real and I continue to persue you and I get hurt, it’s all on me.

By: Tired

Tired — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 04:11:55 +0000

First and foremost let me say this woman is insane. There is absolutely no way you can or should even attempt to justify her behavior. As a mature adult, no situation warrants such behavior.

Now, as a man, I’m so sick & tired of women (ESPECIALLY my beautiful black women) always trying to play the victim. Women cheat just as much as men if not more. They just go to greater lengths to cover it up. And at the end of the day, if someone cheats on you, SO THE HELL WHAT. Get over yourself. Unless its your spouse, suck it up, deal with it, move on and quit acting like your world is over. I’m not saying its right, but, man or woman, it happens to everyone at some point in life, whether you find out or not.

By: HeadMistress

HeadMistress — Thu, 27 May 2010 20:18:26 +0000

I’ll agree she took it way too far. My Inner Hacker/Stakeout B*tch was laid to rest in my early twenties – I trust my gut implicitly – but I can certainly understand some women’s need to get that proof positive before they can accept that their man ain’t isht. I can even get with alerting the other women involved if that’s what you feel you need to do but in a RESPECTFUL WAY! Callin them dumb b*tches and sending their info to each other along with their pictures was dead wrong.

However, (and yes I get the point of the post is about women being able to control themselves even when they’ve been hurt) men (in this case, but “people” in general) need to check their behavior and realize that the shady negative & dishonest isht they do has consequences, it affects others and it will come back to bite them – hence Mavi’s example of dude losing out on a contract worth $5k a month…is lying to get some extra p*ssy really worth all that?

By: Sabur7

Sabur7 — Thu, 27 May 2010 18:33:05 +0000

“Hurt people hurt people”
Simple saying, but one of the most true I’ve heard.

By: bogart4017

bogart4017 — Wed, 26 May 2010 19:18:38 +0000

Sure, thats the way to handle it—–ghetto behavior. This is not an R. Kelly video. Have some class about yourself and act your age.

By: DJ

DJ — Tue, 25 May 2010 18:54:15 +0000

Laughing… it’s low down and dirty HOWEVER, someone had to put ole dude on blast. He was getting away with stealing the cookies and his hand was slapped. As for the ‘other’ women, I believe ole girl was doing them a favor. I wouldn’t go as far as to say she was justified in sending pics and numbers, etc. (for that she needs an a** whopping). Sis played and got played and even though she sounds like she’s through with dude, it’s been my experience that she’ll be right there to take his trifflin’ behind right back. She isn’t fooling anyone; the move was calcualted.

By: DB.

DB. — Sun, 23 May 2010 12:22:52 +0000

And they were only dating??

Her foolishness is outshining what that guy did. What is the message she wants to portray? That that certain guy cheated? It’s more emphasized on her being crazy and disrespecting others (did she have to send their nude pics for the world to see??).

What happened to the good old days? Communication is key, if you feel the need to hack someone to find out if he’s cheating or not… You obviously don’t trust him.

Just keep it moving, burn his clothes (j/k lol) but don’t drag other along your tour-the-revenge…