Comments on: 5 Reasons Not To Admit You Cheated

By: cardiana29

cardiana29 — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 20:19:48 +0000

I think that being honest is number one in the relationship. Every one messes up sometimes. Cheating is wrong but it is better to talk about it instead of lying. Lying just makes matters worse.

By: Sinfulℓyo

Sinfulℓyo — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 00:23:20 +0000

ughhh. this post just pissed me off lol. he wasn’t my man but i was dealing with this guy and it was quickly leading to a relationship until i slipped up with my at the time booty call [smh]. i’ve always been the poster child for honesty so i came out and told him the next day and his reaction was typical: i don’t want to talk to you anymore. distraught isn’t even the word to describe how i was feeling. we ended up “working things out” which was code for things would never be the same again. there was never an official “us” because he didn’t trust me [ironic, eh?] and he did his college football player thing and whored it up. after his infidelities came to light we called it quits and during one of our many “final” conversations this mofo said to me “you shouldn’t have told me. we’d have been married by now if you hadn’t…” men are ugh. i truly don’t understand how my being honest [in many situations] always gives me the short end of the stick :/ i’m about to just take up lying!

By: YB

YB — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 02:47:19 +0000

To some people, the temporary lack of common sense allows them to cheat, and throw away a good relationship. If you end up cheating, you have to realize you are jeopardizing all you have with that person AND you are now taking the future of the relationship out of your hands.

By: Blessedbriliant

Blessedbriliant — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 20:27:07 +0000

You make excellent points… the ending is best though because if you never put yourself in the situation by cheating you never face the dilemma.

By: msbliss

msbliss — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 20:07:11 +0000

I absolutely HATE cheating! I think cheating only happens when there’s a leak in self esteem in the other partner. U can blame ur partner for this or that But ur happiness is UP to you & how you deal with it is ur responsibility. If the love is gone or u feel ur partner can’t change the things you don’t like MOVE ON.
I know all men will eventually cheat & I’m open minded enough 4 my man 2 come 2 me & share his feelings. I believe @the beginning of a relationship infidelity should be discussed & not shrugged under the rug. The lying, sneaky, & low down behavior is very heartbreaking & will dampen a persons spirit about love.