Comments on: Think Twice Before Cheating

By: Braveheart

Braveheart — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 20:20:08 +0000

That is one of the most unfortunate and worst things that could occur between two people, especially married. I’m the last one who will ever condone this type of behavior, however, this WILL continue. Like robbing and stealing. Folks will still participate in infidelity, no matter the risk or the potential of consequence. How do I know? Look around. In regards to the laws (of certain states) and lawsuits, some folks are less concerned with their very souls and more concerned with everything else. God help us all………

By: msbliss

msbliss — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 01:55:17 +0000

Being cheated on & dealing with the embrassment is very hard & it cuts very very deep. As a victim myself & dealing with a very public affair my bf had I don’t blame people for suing. That hell hath no fury like a woman scorned shit IS REAL. Luckly with pray & mediation I’m getting through it BUT it is very hard. I could never cheat on some1 after going through what I’ve been through. Its living a lie, being distrustful, & very hurtful if u luv the person your hurting. But u reap what you sow & no matter how you try to justify ur bad bahavior just know you will face the consequences of what you did.

By: bogart4017

bogart4017 — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 21:08:17 +0000

I would strongly suggest taking the high road. Tell him/her he can have her/him and keep on wlaking-don’t look back (thank you Otis & The Temptations).

By: Kreatinglyrikallinesleavinglipsinlimbo

Kreatinglyrikallinesleavinglipsinlimbo — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 20:05:55 +0000

I have to agree with some of what Cynthia has stated here although I do believe that moral and financial wrongdoings are vastly different at times they can be the same. In our society we feel that it is the responsibility of the party at fault and in these cases they are generally accosted to the married individuals in question. I do however feel that there is no greater fault in these situations as Cynthia has pointed out. As a married man I feel that both the person who cheats and the person with whom they are cheating with are both at fault although ignorance plays its role in that as well. The mere suggestion that a person that does not show face and tell that they are married yet continues to uphold the falsity of the relationship holds the moral wrongdoing but as it relates to financial well being is in my opinion not of importance. Gains of finances in my opinion create a means whereby the individual purports that this gain of funds so to speak is payment for said wrongdoings. When will as Cynthia put it the fulfillment and upholding of ones sacred vows hold true?

By: Cynthia Johnson

Cynthia Johnson — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 00:05:32 +0000

Morally the other man/woman is wrong but I do not believe they should be held financially liable even if they knew upfront about the other person’s marital status.
The person most liable and in the wrong is the man/woman who made the commitment to be faithful to their status. They are supposed to uphold and hold it sacred.