Comments on: Should I Keep The Baby? http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/ Love Advice, Dating Tips, Sex and Love, Celebrity Perspectives Mon, 06 Sep 2010 16:32:46 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: heresathought http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/#comment-32220 heresathought Mon, 22 Mar 2010 20:30:49 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4743#comment-32220 (i know i'm super late on this post, but below are my thoughts) do you want to be tied to this EX for the rest of your life? do you want to rely on some new guy who's offering his services when they're not really needed right now? are you pro-choice or pro-life? when do you feel a baby is "living" at conception or at the point when it can survive for itself? other questions i have, are you the girl that "needs" to be in a relationship? how far along are you in your pregnancy, that you have a new boyfriend and are carrying the old one's baby? that doesn't make sense to me... did i miss something? (i know i’m super late on this post, but below are my thoughts)

do you want to be tied to this EX for the rest of your life? do you want to rely on some new guy who’s offering his services when they’re not really needed right now? are you pro-choice or pro-life? when do you feel a baby is “living” at conception or at the point when it can survive for itself?

other questions i have, are you the girl that “needs” to be in a relationship? how far along are you in your pregnancy, that you have a new boyfriend and are carrying the old one’s baby? that doesn’t make sense to me… did i miss something?

]]> By: judicialcriminals.com http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/#comment-29777 judicialcriminals.com Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:42:06 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4743#comment-29777 These are questions that should have been considered before the baby became an issue. Your baby didn't ask to be created, if you didn't want to become a parent hen keep your legs closed, although you have a new boyfriend, still keep your legs closed. Of course you being pregnant doesn't bother him, if your sexually active he can't get you pregnant because your already their, he has no fear of knocking you up. He has no fear of financial responsibility to you so naturally to him it's not biggie. Perhaps once you do have your baby your current boyfriend may stick around but don't be surprised if he leaves you for another or for another pregnant girl. Your main focus now should be on preparing for the birth of this baby and hopefully your child will be your first priority and not your boyfriend. Hope you also finish school in the event that you had not, or plan to attend college if you did. You need to work hard to put yourself in a position so that you can be a good provider for this unborn child, if the father doesn't want to be actively involved don't worry just go through child support he will be forced to be financially involved. Anyone who does have the best interest of your child or you at heart need to be cut out of your life even if it's family. You need to hold fast to your faith and pray and you will get through this situation. Be careful of people making comments about if women laying with dudes that aren't worth a crap ( some times you don't see what a person is about until it's too late, you can see what they want you to see just as you can know a person for 20 years and still not know them. It takes two to tangle so know that you are not at fault, you are not alone but you will get through it Peace & Blessings These are questions that should have been considered before the baby became an issue. Your baby didn’t ask to be created, if you didn’t want to become a parent hen keep your legs closed, although you have a new boyfriend, still keep your legs closed. Of course you being pregnant doesn’t bother him, if your sexually active he can’t get you pregnant because your already their, he has no fear of knocking you up. He has no fear of financial responsibility to you so naturally to him it’s not biggie. Perhaps once you do have your baby your current boyfriend may stick around but don’t be surprised if he leaves you for another or for another pregnant girl. Your main focus now should be on preparing for the birth of this baby and hopefully your child will be your first priority and not your boyfriend. Hope you also finish school in the event that you had not, or plan to attend college if you did. You need to work hard to put yourself in a position so that you can be a good provider for this unborn child, if the father doesn’t want to be actively involved don’t worry just go through child support he will be forced to be financially involved.

Anyone who does have the best interest of your child or you at heart need to be cut out of your life even if it’s family. You need to hold fast to your faith and pray and you will get through this situation. Be careful of people making comments about if women laying with dudes that aren’t worth a crap ( some times you don’t see what a person is about until it’s too late, you can see what they want you to see just as you can know a person for 20 years and still not know them.

It takes two to tangle so know that you are not at fault, you are not alone but you will get through it

Peace & Blessings

]]> By: peachy http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/#comment-29678 peachy Tue, 19 Jan 2010 09:03:31 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4743#comment-29678 anyway i do agree with FG that only her decision matters..she apparently isnt thinking long term about this. being that she mentioned a new bf...he shouldnt have any say so at all lol hes too new anyway i do agree with FG that only her decision matters..she apparently isnt thinking long term about this. being that she mentioned a new bf…he shouldnt have any say so at all lol hes too new

]]> By: peachy http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/#comment-29677 peachy Tue, 19 Jan 2010 09:01:29 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4743#comment-29677 yawn yawn yawn!! this "God" mess kills me...wtf, after i read the 1st comment i just knew everyone elses comment would be about the same shit, so i didnt bother reading them... blahhhh@ all that yawn yawn yawn!! this “God” mess kills me…wtf, after i read the 1st comment i just knew everyone elses comment would be about the same shit, so i didnt bother reading them… blahhhh@ all that

]]> By: peachy http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/#comment-29676 peachy Tue, 19 Jan 2010 08:56:32 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4743#comment-29676 i agree...but they'll never learn i agree…but they’ll never learn

]]> By: Mona http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/#comment-29501 Mona Tue, 05 Jan 2010 20:22:14 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4743#comment-29501 It happened to me and now over two years later I am overjoyed daily with my son and disgusted with his father. Understand this has nothing to do with the sorry brother that doesn't want to be a part of their child's life and you will be ok. You have to rely on God and trust God has a path. Look at Obama now! This is your journey! This didn't happen TO you, it happend FOR you! You have to grow some thick skin and every day you wonder what if you made a different choice - look at that child and trust you made the right one. The road ain't always easy but, it's worth every drop of sweat and tear and sleepless night you will have. You can do it and feel blessed God did choose you and trust He will turn it around for good! It may not come to fruition today, tomorrow or even ten years from now, but it will! It happened to me and now over two years later I am overjoyed daily with my son and disgusted with his father. Understand this has nothing to do with the sorry brother that doesn’t want to be a part of their child’s life and you will be ok. You have to rely on God and trust God has a path. Look at Obama now! This is your journey! This didn’t happen TO you, it happend FOR you! You have to grow some thick skin and every day you wonder what if you made a different choice – look at that child and trust you made the right one. The road ain’t always easy but, it’s worth every drop of sweat and tear and sleepless night you will have. You can do it and feel blessed God did choose you and trust He will turn it around for good! It may not come to fruition today, tomorrow or even ten years from now, but it will!

]]> By: YoungBrothas http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/#comment-29477 YoungBrothas Wed, 30 Dec 2009 13:38:35 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4743#comment-29477 Damn thats a really tough situation. Personally, the woman is probably better off with her new man and keeping the child, even if the father of her child doesn't wanna man up and take responsibility. Damn thats a really tough situation. Personally, the woman is probably better off with her new man and keeping the child, even if the father of her child doesn’t wanna man up and take responsibility.

]]> By: EbonyLolita http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/#comment-29451 EbonyLolita Sat, 26 Dec 2009 17:04:09 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4743#comment-29451 Everyone's relationship w/God is different. I am a CHRISTIAN and I know if I were to get pregnant tomorrow according to Christian values I SHOULD NOT have an abortion. However, I sinned to get pregnant as I am not married. So.... I would have an abortion. But that is my personal choice. Young Lady decide how you want to live your life. What is your futuristic vision, an honest vision of yourself. There are no guarantees in life when it comes to a mate choosing to stay with you and/or marrying you and taking care of his child. You have to decide if you can walk this road alone and what explanations you will give to your child if he/she asks "Where is my daddy??" Yes children are a BLESSING but some blessings come w/ a burden to bear before you see the fruits of the labor. P.S. No matter what you choose use this as a lesson and practice birth control so you'll never have to make a decision like this again. Love, EbonyLolita ;) Everyone’s relationship w/God is different. I am a CHRISTIAN and I know if I were to get pregnant tomorrow according to Christian values I SHOULD NOT have an abortion. However, I sinned to get pregnant as I am not married. So…. I would have an abortion. But that is my personal choice.

Young Lady decide how you want to live your life. What is your futuristic vision, an honest vision of yourself. There are no guarantees in life when it comes to a mate choosing to stay with you and/or marrying you and taking care of his child. You have to decide if you can walk this road alone and what explanations you will give to your child if he/she asks “Where is my daddy??” Yes children are a BLESSING but some blessings come w/ a burden to bear before you see the fruits of the labor.
P.S. No matter what you choose use this as a lesson and practice birth control so you’ll never have to make a decision like this again.

Love, EbonyLolita ;)

]]> By: AnonyMiss http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/#comment-29431 AnonyMiss Sat, 19 Dec 2009 04:30:32 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4743#comment-29431 To the pregnant woman: Well, obviously this isn't going to be an easy decision. At least for me it wouldn't. And it's a bit hard to advise you without knowing more about the situation i.e. what your economic situation is like, what social supports you have available to you, your current emotional state, etc.... So that being said, I agree with Fly Guy and think you really need to look within yourself for the answer to this because I don't know who else would better be able to tell you what's the best decision for you. I can only tell you what I would do. I would keep the child but what's right for me or someone else may not necessarily be right for you. Wish you the best and will be praying for you. To the pregnant woman: Well, obviously this isn’t going to be an easy decision. At least for me it wouldn’t. And it’s a bit hard to advise you without knowing more about the situation i.e. what your economic situation is like, what social supports you have available to you, your current emotional state, etc…. So that being said, I agree with Fly Guy and think you really need to look within yourself for the answer to this because I don’t know who else would better be able to tell you what’s the best decision for you. I can only tell you what I would do. I would keep the child but what’s right for me or someone else may not necessarily be right for you.

Wish you the best and will be praying for you.

]]> By: msbliss http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/12/should-i-keep-the-baby/#comment-29427 msbliss Fri, 18 Dec 2009 19:16:36 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4743#comment-29427 How do u figure obama wasn't a planned pregnancy?? God used that for a thing?? So I guess when he allowed manson, stalin, and hitler into the world he was using that for a ...bad...thing? OK. How do u figure obama wasn’t a planned pregnancy?? God used that for a thing?? So I guess when he allowed manson, stalin, and hitler into the world he was using that for a …bad…thing? OK.

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