In other words, both men and women have to be willing for sex to happen (outside of being forced). In fact, this is even more true for men – a woman can get bored and start to watch TV while still technically having sex. Unless you’re 17 or using medication a guy who loses focus and decides to watch TV generally won’t be successful at continuing to have sex, even technically.

So if both have to choose to have sex then the only real difference (based on the author’s arguments) is that men will basically ALWAYS choose it whereas women will actually exercise some judgement. Which means there is basically non such thing as a non-hoe man so the term is functionally meaningless. The only difference between men is how successful or unsuccessful different men are at achieving their hoeness.

To add to that. I think it’s stupid to label women or men. We’re all adults, we all have sex, what’s the fucking big deal? Why do we need to label anything or make it negative. There is nothing wrong with sex, both parties are consenting to it, and therefore both parties are letting that pleasure happen. It’s okay. Be adults. Have sex. As long as you are loving and respecting your sexy ass bodies by using a condom, why are we all hung up on labeling or justifying it? Men and women alike are players and hoes. No gender is above the other. If you’re gonna fuck, then fuck and stop debating. Just do it!
“Hoe” as directed at women has a negative connotation. That when women do it, its wrong. That’s stupid. If it’s two people knocking boots and they both want it, they’re just grown folks enjoying the natural act of sex. Big fucking deal. And the only time I have experienced a man calling a woman a hoe was all out of anger because that woman didn’t want him. He got rejected by that one woman. Move on.

Can everybody just enjoy sex without making one gender better than the other or more allowed to enjoy sex freely than the other. Let’s all just grow up. Stop punishing the act of sex or making it negative. Enjoy.