Balancing Sex, Love And Music

Dec 26th, 2009 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Letters, Fly Music
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What’s Up Fly Guy,

I notice that you feature music a lot on your site, so I’m hoping that you can help me. My wife and I have been together for about 5 years now, and we’re always playing music when it’s time to set the mood. The only problem is that Maxwell’s first album just doesn’t have the same effect that it used to. Can you help us?

Paul L.

What’s up Paul,

Thanks for reaching out. I think it’s great that you’re actively searching for ways to keep the spark lit in your marriage. As men, we often get a bad rap when it comes to marriage, so your letter is a refreshing reminder of the legions of good men out there who care about the success of their relationships.

As far as music goes, I would suggest that you each pick 10 of your favorite “mood” songs, and combine them to form one master playlist. And if I can make one final suggestion, I’d ask that you add this one particular song to the playlist … trust me; it’s a winner. Listen to it below, and enjoy the ensuing moments with your wife. Take care.

The Fly Guy

Robin Thicke’s “Sex Therapy”

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  • BellaBecca

    Yes. The Robin Thicke song is put-me-in-he-mood-worthy. But adding some old school in the mix will help…Marvin Gaye, Luther, Isley Brothers, The O’Jays, heck even throw some R. in there!
    Relying on ONE album may not be the key. But it is good to see a man working on keeping his woman happy. Maybe he has a brother? :-S

  • http://www.flyguychronicles.com The Fly Guy

    Look at you pulling out the old school jams ;-)

  • qwerty

    Bellabecca you forgot about Jodeci-Forever my Lady, Guy-Let’s Chill, Blackstreet-Before I Let You Go, Joe-I wanna Knowno, Floetry-Say Yes, Debarge-Love Me in a Special Way, Jill Scott-Crown Royal, Lauren Hill-Nothing Even Matters, Tevin Campbell-Shh, Brian McKnight-Still in Love.

  • onenmilgirl

    I love listening to musiq, raphael saadiq, bilal, shai, floetry.. just a mixture but neo-soul can do the trick anytime..lol

  • hariharan

    smart one

  • http://www.brenherrera.com Bren

    really. a combined playlist. this is suggestive of your own approach, which seems to be pretty darn fair and able to comprise. nice job.

  • Annette

    Good points, I think I will definitely subscribe! :) . I’ll go and read some more!

  • Anonymous

    YES! YES! YES! To Jill Scott -Crown Royal

  • NaturaLlyJay

    Ok if we are going there. What about Tank- unpredictable, Dru- Hill- Beauty, Carl Thomas- Come to Me,
    Marvin Gaye- I Want you, Tyrese – Lately and Sweet Lady, Ne-Yo- Say it, 112- Make Love … i mean i can go on….. Throw some of that SWV- Rain on me, Kells does the trick if you pop in that 12 play ( ohmygeesh ) :-)

    Good luck we need more men like you !

  • LaughingEyes

    how could i share:
    Floetry-say yes, Kem- i cant stop loving you, janelle monae-you, maxwell-whenever, wherever/ for lovers only, india arie- chocolate high/the truth/he heals me, musiq soulchild-love,laura izibor-if tonight is my last,kenny lattimore-for you/if i loose my woman/while my guitar gently weeps,amel larrieux-make me whole, tizziano ferro-breath gentle,anthony hamilton-the point of it all.
    PS: you cant go wrong with old school and sensual jazz. im dont know the names of the old guys but there are internet radio stations that play the same type of music 24/7 and without interruption. eg KISS FM.
    enjoy.

  • Nesha Reed

    Bilal: Soul Sista…..OH SNAP! SAY NO MORE!