Comments on: I Don't Want A Man With Bad Credit http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/ Love Advice Will Never Be The Same... Fri, 15 Jul 2011 17:58:14 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: Striggs http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/#comment-19932 Striggs Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:30:26 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4224#comment-19932 I think the woman has every right to be concerned about a guy's finances. If he's currently making active strides in improving that area of his life then I agree with FG that you should take that into consideration. If he is not taking steps to correct that situation then you should take that into consideration also. People make mistakes, but the key is if they learn AND make changes so that it doesn't happen again. I think the woman has every right to be concerned about a guy’s finances. If he’s currently making active strides in improving that area of his life then I agree with FG that you should take that into consideration. If he is not taking steps to correct that situation then you should take that into consideration also. People make mistakes, but the key is if they learn AND make changes so that it doesn’t happen again.

]]> By: bogart4017 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/#comment-19931 bogart4017 Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:21:22 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4224#comment-19931 I don't know about the people on here anymore. I strongly disagree with what most of these people are saying but the only one who expresses their views where i can disagree agreeably is Reina. Some of the others---all i can do is shake my head and weep for the future. I don’t know about the people on here anymore. I strongly disagree with what most of these people are saying but the only one who expresses their views where i can disagree agreeably is Reina. Some of the others—all i can do is shake my head and weep for the future.

]]> By: SoulSunshine http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/#comment-19930 SoulSunshine Wed, 07 Oct 2009 14:47:17 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4224#comment-19930 I definitely wouldn't end the relationship just because of bad credit, at least not yet. First all do you know the circumstances of which his debt was acquired...medical bills, layoff's, student loans...etc. You also have to take in account how old he was when he started to make poor financial choices. For instance, I know so many people, myself included who went and got credit cards in college and used them unwisely. I'd say allow him to try to rectify the situation without backing off because of it. Bad credit is not the end all...you made have to pay a little bit more from stuff but that doesn't mean that he hasn't learned from the past and it doesn't mean that he can't give you what you want. I've done things in my PAST that I've truly left behind, I'd hate to think that someone would pass me by without FIRST giving me the benefit of the doubt. You may have GOOD credit, but that doesn't mean that you haven't done anything in your past that you wouldn't want to be judge for. Think on it. I definitely wouldn’t end the relationship just because of bad credit, at least not yet. First all do you know the circumstances of which his debt was acquired…medical bills, layoff’s, student loans…etc. You also have to take in account how old he was when he started to make poor financial choices. For instance, I know so many people, myself included who went and got credit cards in college and used them unwisely. I’d say allow him to try to rectify the situation without backing off because of it. Bad credit is not the end all…you made have to pay a little bit more from stuff but that doesn’t mean that he hasn’t learned from the past and it doesn’t mean that he can’t give you what you want. I’ve done things in my PAST that I’ve truly left behind, I’d hate to think that someone would pass me by without FIRST giving me the benefit of the doubt. You may have GOOD credit, but that doesn’t mean that you haven’t done anything in your past that you wouldn’t want to be judge for. Think on it.

]]> By: Just Like Rach http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/#comment-19929 Just Like Rach Wed, 07 Oct 2009 11:14:04 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4224#comment-19929 Communication is key! Talk to the guy,find out where his head is. What is he doing about eliminating the debt? If he's being reponsible & trying to get things back in order stay. Also, find out what caused the debt. Was there an accident or illness that lead to him being unemployed for a period of time? Talk to him and be honest. People make mistakes, lear from them, grow & never Repeat them all the time. Its so good to have you back Fly Guy! Communication is key! Talk to the guy,find out where his head is.
What is he doing about eliminating the debt? If he’s being reponsible
& trying to get things back in order stay. Also, find out what caused the debt.
Was there an accident or illness that lead to him being unemployed for a period of time?
Talk to him and be honest. People make mistakes, lear from them, grow & never
Repeat them all the time.
Its so good to have you back Fly Guy!

]]> By: msbliss http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/#comment-19928 msbliss Tue, 06 Oct 2009 22:38:02 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4224#comment-19928 So happy 2 have u back fly guy So happy 2 have u back fly guy

]]> By: Dat Dude http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/#comment-19927 Dat Dude Tue, 06 Oct 2009 22:25:59 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4224#comment-19927 Some of these comments bout a person's past are killin me. Don't let us find out about some of the jacked u thigs you did in college, or whateveroherseleto youhave in your closet.People change. I know I have. So don't be so quck to judge a person just on their past. If it were you in their shoes, I'm sure you wouldn't wanted that same type of harsh judgement Some of these comments bout a person’s past are killin me. Don’t let us find out about some of the jacked u thigs you did in college, or whateveroherseleto youhave in your closet.People change. I know I have. So don’t be so quck to judge a person just on their past. If it were you in their shoes, I’m sure you wouldn’t wanted that same type of harsh judgement

]]> By: Priscilla http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/#comment-19926 Priscilla Tue, 06 Oct 2009 22:15:58 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4224#comment-19926 Theres this one guy I was dating and was not wanting to be with me because I'm in debt. What I don't understand is why he's making me seem like the bad guy. My debt is for a student loan. His debt, back child support and taxes he didn't pay from years ago. I'm paying on my student loan. He's paying on his back child support but its more than what I owe. Theres this one guy I was dating and was not wanting to be with me because I’m in debt. What I don’t understand is why he’s making me seem like the bad guy. My debt is for a student loan. His debt, back child support and taxes he didn’t pay from years ago. I’m paying on my student loan. He’s paying on his back child support but its more than what I owe.

]]> By: Kim http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/#comment-19925 Kim Tue, 06 Oct 2009 22:07:39 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4224#comment-19925 The greatest indicator of future behavior is past behavior. The greatest indicator of future behavior is past behavior.

]]> By: The Fly Guy http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/#comment-19924 The Fly Guy Tue, 06 Oct 2009 20:56:14 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4224#comment-19924 We have a difference of opinion then. The past can provide clues, but it is not a definitive guide to how a person will behave in the future. If that were the case, then there would be no point in trying to grow and better yourself as a person. Many of us have past habits and behaviors that we've been fortunate enough to grow out of. For me, it was wanting to be with a lot of women. In the same way that I was able to grow out of that, I believe a person can mature with their finances as well. We have a difference of opinion then. The past can provide clues, but it is not a definitive guide to how a person will behave in the future. If that were the case, then there would be no point in trying to grow and better yourself as a person.

Many of us have past habits and behaviors that we’ve been fortunate enough to grow out of. For me, it was wanting to be with a lot of women. In the same way that I was able to grow out of that, I believe a person can mature with their finances as well.

]]> By: Cam http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/i-dont-want-a-man-with-bad-credit/#comment-19923 Cam Tue, 06 Oct 2009 20:26:14 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4224#comment-19923 On the contrary, I believe a person's past behavior is a VERY clear indicator of how they will operate in the future. On the contrary, I believe a person’s past behavior is a VERY clear indicator of how they will operate in the future.

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