Comments on: 5 Things Single Women Hate To Hear http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/5-things-single-women-hate-to-hear/ Love Advice, Dating Tips, Sex and Love, Celebrity Perspectives Wed, 28 Jul 2010 19:15:16 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: bks_boss_bytch http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/5-things-single-women-hate-to-hear/#comment-29244 bks_boss_bytch Sun, 22 Nov 2009 08:52:46 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4289#comment-29244 I hear #5 more often than not....Its not a negative comment to hear (or even something I dont want to hear as a single NY woman) I do agree that the statement is interpreted by single women exactly as you have described. (((Sidebar: I much rather know up front that a guy isnt into my type soon rather than later......less time wasted))). I don't think people really give much thought into the advice they are giving...I genuinely believe they just feel they need to tell a person something as not to seem insensitive to the plight of the other person. 8 times out of 10 they really arent thinking about how the other person will interpret the advice, they just want to acknowledge the single persons dilemma and (brainstorm...if you will) be apart of the solution. I'm not a sensitive soul...so I guess thats why I have a positive take on it. Its just great to hear people conversing about the topic. This FLY GUY is something else, lol (keep'em talkin hun, dialogue is a powerful thing ;-) I hear #5 more often than not….Its not a negative comment to hear (or even something I dont want to hear as a single NY woman) I do agree that the statement is interpreted by single women exactly as you have described. (((Sidebar: I much rather know up front that a guy isnt into my type soon rather than later……less time wasted))). I don’t think people really give much thought into the advice they are giving…I genuinely believe they just feel they need to tell a person something as not to seem insensitive to the plight of the other person. 8 times out of 10 they really arent thinking about how the other person will interpret the advice, they just want to acknowledge the single persons dilemma and (brainstorm…if you will) be apart of the solution. I’m not a sensitive soul…so I guess thats why I have a positive take on it. Its just great to hear people conversing about the topic. This FLY GUY is something else, lol (keep’em talkin hun, dialogue is a powerful thing ;-)

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]]> By: Goldie http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/5-things-single-women-hate-to-hear/#comment-28890 Goldie Wed, 14 Oct 2009 19:24:26 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4289#comment-28890 Love the site! I recently ran across it and it's great! Keep up the good work! I seriously hate when people assume that you need advice on finding a man because you are a single women. I've had friends and even strangers ask 'why aren't you married?' as if there is some crazy reason I am not married rather than it being a choice. Keep in mind these are also some of the same people that will tell me 'You are so lucky' when I say I'm going on a spur of the moment trip or when I tell them about the things I'm doing. We all make choices and neither is wrong. While some of my friends were in their early 20's and trying to snatch a husband I knew that this wasn't my path. I wanted to travel, live in new cities and focus on me and find who I wanted to be. I knew being married would not allow for the work or time required for a spouse in my life. I don't judge the fact that they chose a different path. I have no regrets in the path I chose. I have experienced things many of them haven't and am a completely different person now than in my early 20's. I can't imagine marrying someone I dated back then! I'd be a divorce statistic just like a good majority of them are LOL! When the right one comes I'm ready in the meantime I'm enjoying my life. These people with questions or advice need to realize all of us single women are not desperately on a hunt for a man and don't have a problem meeting or dating men. I'm not willing to settle just to say that I am married. I've met some great men and each experience helps me understand what I do & don't want. Love the site! I recently ran across it and it’s great! Keep up the good work!

I seriously hate when people assume that you need advice on finding a man because you are a single women. I’ve had friends and even strangers ask ‘why aren’t you married?’ as if there is some crazy reason I am not married rather than it being a choice. Keep in mind these are also some of the same people that will tell me ‘You are so lucky’ when I say I’m going on a spur of the moment trip or when I tell them about the things I’m doing. We all make choices and neither is wrong. While some of my friends were in their early 20′s and trying to snatch a husband I knew that this wasn’t my path. I wanted to travel, live in new cities and focus on me and find who I wanted to be. I knew being married would not allow for the work or time required for a spouse in my life. I don’t judge the fact that they chose a different path. I have no regrets in the path I chose. I have experienced things many of them haven’t and am a completely different person now than in my early 20′s. I can’t imagine marrying someone I dated back then! I’d be a divorce statistic just like a good majority of them are LOL! When the right one comes I’m ready in the meantime I’m enjoying my life. These people with questions or advice need to realize all of us single women are not desperately on a hunt for a man and don’t have a problem meeting or dating men. I’m not willing to settle just to say that I am married. I’ve met some great men and each experience helps me understand what I do & don’t want.

]]> By: Nicki=Maxwell Fan http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/5-things-single-women-hate-to-hear/#comment-28883 Nicki=Maxwell Fan Wed, 14 Oct 2009 07:22:30 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4289#comment-28883 Sometimes it can be your enviorment...for ex. If you live in the so called "hood" ,MOST not all...but most guys that around are no good and options may seem limited. Sometimes it can be your enviorment…for ex. If you live in the so called “hood” ,MOST not all…but most guys that around are no good and options may seem limited.

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]]> By: msbliss http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/5-things-single-women-hate-to-hear/#comment-28862 msbliss Mon, 12 Oct 2009 22:31:55 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4289#comment-28862 Being single is wonderful & I wish humans would realize u don't get ur identity from who or what u have BUT from what u give. We have allowed ourselves 2 be put in a box & told THIs Is THe WAY when in reality there is no one way that works for every1. Only when women(and men) realize they lack nothing & already have the needed tools 2 live a peaceful life all this drama about babies,marriage will cease.this is coming from a woman in a relationship already & who never dated in high school & went through all these crazy emotions until I saw the light. Single or united I'm happy & satisfied cause I love myself. Being single is wonderful & I wish humans would realize u don’t get ur identity from who or what u have BUT from what u give. We have allowed ourselves 2 be put in a box & told THIs Is THe WAY when in reality there is no one way that works for every1. Only when women(and men) realize they lack nothing & already have the needed tools 2 live a peaceful life all this drama about babies,marriage will cease.this is coming from a woman in a relationship already & who never dated in high school & went through all these crazy emotions until I saw the light. Single or united I’m happy & satisfied cause I love myself.

]]> By: shix http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/5-things-single-women-hate-to-hear/#comment-28859 shix Mon, 12 Oct 2009 20:37:38 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4289#comment-28859 Everytime there is a wedding in my circle, I get that dull annoying ache. NOT for my friend or relative, but for the smart comments that I am going to have to hear from EVERYONE in my life who always has a snide comment. It is like the world wants for you to jump into a relationship and run down the aisle immediately if not sooner! What about going through the cycles of singleness, relationship, etc? It gets maddening. If I happen to see something that can really help a friend who wants to be in a relationship, I will tell them. If I don't know, and am just making up stuff, I'll shut my mouth. AND - if someone is dating someone for a long time. let the have their time to determine their next steps, your annoying advice, judgement, nor desire to go to an event is NOT helpful in pushing anything along! Everytime there is a wedding in my circle, I get that dull annoying ache. NOT for my friend or relative, but for the smart comments that I am going to have to hear from EVERYONE in my life who always has a snide comment. It is like the world wants for you to jump into a relationship and run down the aisle immediately if not sooner! What about going through the cycles of singleness, relationship, etc? It gets maddening. If I happen to see something that can really help a friend who wants to be in a relationship, I will tell them. If I don’t know, and am just making up stuff, I’ll shut my mouth. AND – if someone is dating someone for a long time. let the have their time to determine their next steps, your annoying advice, judgement, nor desire to go to an event is NOT helpful in pushing anything along!

]]> By: Sinfulℓyo http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/5-things-single-women-hate-to-hear/#comment-28858 Sinfulℓyo Mon, 12 Oct 2009 20:22:39 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4289#comment-28858 my grandmother and great aunt confronted me a few months ago about this subject. actually they attacked me and my other cousin [we're the only straight females of our generation]. they were telling us we're getting too old to not have boyfriends/possible husbands lined up to settle down with [mind you i just turned 22 in august]. they swear finding a decent man is so easy! i can't meet any men worth my time and i refuse to settle for less...if i turn into the old bitter cat lady, so be it ;] my grandmother and great aunt confronted me a few months ago about this subject. actually they attacked me and my other cousin [we're the only straight females of our generation]. they were telling us we’re getting too old to not have boyfriends/possible husbands lined up to settle down with [mind you i just turned 22 in august]. they swear finding a decent man is so easy! i can’t meet any men worth my time and i refuse to settle for less…if i turn into the old bitter cat lady, so be it ;]

]]> By: The Fly Guy http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/10/5-things-single-women-hate-to-hear/#comment-28852 The Fly Guy Mon, 12 Oct 2009 17:52:28 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=4289#comment-28852 Welcome to the site Tiffany. Glad you like what you've experienced so far. Welcome to the site Tiffany. Glad you like what you’ve experienced so far.

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