I hope you don’t mind my asking but – if he/she likes you enough – why don’t they just go have a blood test with you…? Is that too much to ask? I always ask that of my partners, and whoever doesn’t like it can take a hike (It also means I get fewer partners, but i would rather have another ‘romp’ later – than have 5min of pleasure change everything in my life with HIV). Maybe its because I come from a country where HIV or any sexual transmitted disease is no joke, but thats always my condition. Dont like it? BYE BYE. It doesn’t matter if if he has had 1 or 25, he could have caught something that one time. So why not be safe?

#2. LOL Don’t tell that. BUT don’t pretend that you have a lot to spend when you know you’re going to the bathroom and calling the number on the back of your debt card to make sure you can cover the bill for dinner.

#3 Honestly if I guy told me he didn’t cheat I would think he was lying. He’s better off telling me he did. I don’t need him to go into detail about what he did, but I would respect that he told me the truth.

as for #1, when a woman ask, I tell her. I guess I’m immune to caring, but it’s very rare for a woman to ask me to begin with. The last one I don’t have a problem with answering either…..I’ve never been in a ‘committed relationship’ and not cheated, which is why I have no desire to be anyone. I’m usually given the “well atleast your honest” line.