Comments on: She’s In Love With Another Man http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/ Love Advice, Dating Tips, Sex and Love, Celebrity Perspectives Sun, 21 Mar 2010 03:35:07 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: NaturaLly Jay http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-28404 NaturaLly Jay Thu, 20 Aug 2009 00:18:50 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-28404 @ FG Well thanx for putting that scenerio in perspective and this is what i really needed. I just recently met a real Nice Man that is on my level and we connect and i like him, But currently my heart is in the hands of another ... i was blocking really meeting all these great guys who want to be with me and to only have feelings for one but now im going to just let go of him. I mean im getting frustrated meeting guys who see my true protiential and he sleepin on me... well Thanks again ....im going to Give this Nice Man a chance that I deserve. @ FG

Well thanx for putting that scenerio in perspective and this is what i really needed. I just recently met a real Nice Man that is on my level and we connect and i like him, But currently my heart is in the hands of another … i was blocking really meeting all these great guys who want to be with me and to only have feelings for one but now im going to just let go of him. I mean im getting frustrated meeting guys who see my true protiential and he sleepin on me… well Thanks again ….im going to Give this Nice Man a chance that I deserve.

]]> By: bogart4017 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-28084 bogart4017 Mon, 10 Aug 2009 20:06:37 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-28084 Unfort this scenario is very familiar. I had a very good and patient woman but let her go because i had a situation i had to persue and i couldnt get her out of my head. I had warned this woman i was very emotionally involved and it might be best not to invest too much emotionally in a relationship with me but i guess she threw caution to the wind. Letting go was very hard on her and i was upset because i let her know upfront we had a beginning, a middle and an end and we should both know when the end would be. Unfortunately for me the relationship i persued didn't work out (she couldnt possibly function in an adult relationship at that time) but at know time did i try and reconnect with the first woman. I think i hurt her enough not to even try to get her hopes up that we could go back to the way it used to be. The moral of the story is: You should separate yourself completely from one relationship before embarking upon another. Unfort this scenario is very familiar. I had a very good and patient woman but let her go because i had a situation i had to persue and i couldnt get her out of my head. I had warned this woman i was very emotionally involved and it might be best not to invest too much emotionally in a relationship with me but i guess she threw caution to the wind. Letting go was very hard on her and i was upset because i let her know upfront we had a beginning, a middle and an end and we should both know when the end would be. Unfortunately for me the relationship i persued didn’t work out (she couldnt possibly function in an adult relationship at that time) but at know time did i try and reconnect with the first woman. I think i hurt her enough not to even try to get her hopes up that we could go back to the way it used to be. The moral of the story is: You should separate yourself completely from one relationship before embarking upon another.

]]> By: LouieV http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-19643 LouieV Thu, 13 Nov 2008 02:06:23 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-19643 @The Fly Guy Your right, I've never given much credence to “all the good men are taken” argument either... problem is those men are too busy chasing the many women that are tainted, stuck, damaged, in denial, or simply "sucker for love". Rightfully so, even the fly guys chase those women; many times those are the best ones, they love the hardest and the longest... @The Fly Guy

Your right, I’ve never given much credence to “all the good men are taken” argument either… problem is those men are too busy chasing the many women that are tainted, stuck, damaged, in denial, or simply “sucker for love”.

Rightfully so, even the fly guys chase those women; many times those are the best ones, they love the hardest and the longest…

]]> By: lifesgolden http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-7192 lifesgolden Wed, 01 Oct 2008 03:02:17 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-7192 I'm going through this right NOW!!!I found this song on You Tube and said to myself, this is exactly what I'm going through. The thing is I'm married, the other guy has a hold on me that made me leave my husband and plan yes plan a future with him. It gets wrost I have 2 kids that is now living in a single parent home. I can't be happy because of the guilt. No man can love me like my husband does or did. Please men and women don't open that door until you shut the other one. I’m going through this right NOW!!!I found this song on You Tube and said to myself, this is exactly what I’m going through. The thing is I’m married, the other guy has a hold on me that made me leave my husband and plan yes plan a future with him. It gets wrost I have 2 kids that is now living in a single parent home. I can’t be happy because of the guilt. No man can love me like my husband does or did. Please men and women don’t open that door until you shut the other one.

]]> By: some girl http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-6611 some girl Tue, 23 Sep 2008 22:10:02 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-6611 i went through this last year. i met someone that i thought i was going to leave my boyfriend for. i couldnt understand what it was about this guy that had me coming back. i struggled with my feelings for a year. i didn't leave my boyfriend for him though... i am happy with my decision but i am still letting go. i went through this last year. i met someone that i thought i was going to leave my boyfriend for. i couldnt understand what it was about this guy that had me coming back. i struggled with my feelings for a year. i didn’t leave my boyfriend for him though… i am happy with my decision but i am still letting go.

]]> By: Randy Brown http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-6113 Randy Brown Tue, 16 Sep 2008 06:33:01 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-6113 Check out the website link I posted. It will describe this exact situation that I am in. It hurts so bad because I one day pictured marrying her. Link: http://www.consciousloving.com/forums/showthread.php?t=18230 Check out the website link I posted. It will describe this exact situation that I am in. It hurts so bad because I one day pictured marrying her.

Link: http://www.consciousloving.com/forums/showthread.php?t=18230

]]> By: Mr.Cali http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-3935 Mr.Cali Mon, 18 Aug 2008 01:50:51 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-3935 Everyday it’s this constant nagging feeling that I feel and it hurts. I always think to myself finally she has let her past go. But I’ve come to the realization that my life doesn’t ever work out that easily. Why is she still in love with her past? For eight months I’ve known you… and for six almost seven I have tired to look past your past. I mean if he is the “cats meow” than why did you ever leave your past but then again I guess you haven’t and that’s why I am writing this. You tell me that I am your prince charming. But where is the connection? Is there more than just a physical attraction? I want so much more, I’m thirsty, I want to connect and commit on an emotional, spiritual, and intellectual level. I want to give myself to you but I continue to be kept at an arm’s distant. If it’s not one thing that reminds you of him it’s another. Not always verbalized but it is written on her face. Every time you go back home and I am not invited my heart drops. Then when I ask you about the trip I get half of the story. It’s not fair I am open and honest with you but it’s reciprocated. This last time she went back home and then came back she was acting different. Her past is constantly in her life and she finally told me he probably always will be. How do you move forward if you are holding on to your past? You say that your family still invites him over to the house and he still hangs out with you like everything is cool. I don’t understand it, I don’t question it and I refuse to make someone do something they don’t want to do. But I just want to be enough for you. I want this relationship to be different. Maybe I am misguided in wanting you to distant yourself from him, but can you blame me? For seven years you have been off and on with your past. Everyday it’s this constant nagging feeling that I feel and it hurts. I always think to myself finally she has let her past go. But I’ve come to the realization that my life doesn’t ever work out that easily. Why is she still in love with her past? For eight months I’ve known you… and for six almost seven I have tired to look past your past. I mean if he is the “cats meow” than why did you ever leave your past but then again I guess you haven’t and that’s why I am writing this. You tell me that I am your prince charming. But where is the connection? Is there more than just a physical attraction? I want so much more, I’m thirsty, I want to connect and commit on an emotional, spiritual, and intellectual level. I want to give myself to you but I continue to be kept at an arm’s distant. If it’s not one thing that reminds you of him it’s another. Not always verbalized but it is written on her face. Every time you go back home and I am not invited my heart drops. Then when I ask you about the trip I get half of the story. It’s not fair I am open and honest with you but it’s reciprocated. This last time she went back home and then came back she was acting different. Her past is constantly in her life and she finally told me he probably always will be. How do you move forward if you are holding on to your past? You say that your family still invites him over to the house and he still hangs out with you like everything is cool. I don’t understand it, I don’t question it and I refuse to make someone do something they don’t want to do. But I just want to be enough for you. I want this relationship to be different. Maybe I am misguided in wanting you to distant yourself from him, but can you blame me? For seven years you have been off and on with your past.

]]> By: Mr. Cali http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-3924 Mr. Cali Sun, 17 Aug 2008 23:17:11 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-3924 Everyday it’s this constant nagging feeling that I feel and it hurts. I always think to myself finally she has let her past go but I come to the realization that my life does ever work out that easily. Why is she still in love with this man? For eight months ive known you and for six almost seven I have tired to look past your past. I mean if he is the “cats meow” than why did you ever; cheat, constantly break up and fight with him. You tell me that I was or am, your prince charming but I so want to connect on more than just a physical level. I want so much more, it’s like I’m thirst, to connect and commit on a emotional, spiritual, and intellectual level. I want to give of myself to you but I continue to be kept at an arm’s distant. If its not one thing that reminds her of him its another and no its not verbalized but it is written on her face. Every time you go back home and I am not invited my heart drops. Then when I ask you about the trip I get half of the story. Its not fair I am open and honest with her but its reciprocated. This last time she went back and then came back here she was acting different and why do you think. Because her past is still in her life and finally told me he probably always will be. How do you move forward if you are holding on to your past? You say that your family still invites him over to the house and he still hangs out with you like everything is cool. I don’t understand it I don’t question it and I refuse to make someone do something they don’t want to do. But I just want to be enough for you. I want this relationship to be different from any other relationship that you have ever had. Maybe I am misguided in wanting you to distant yourself from him, but can you blame me? For seven years you all have been off and on. So what do I do because I don’t see us moving forward. My pursuit of this relationship do I just stop or should I continue on waiting for her to open not only her eyes but her heart? Love doesn’t come around everyday but people say that you will know when its right… Everyday it’s this constant nagging feeling that I feel and it hurts. I always think to myself finally she has let her past go but I come to the realization that my life does ever work out that easily. Why is she still in love with this man? For eight months ive known you and for six almost seven I have tired to look past your past. I mean if he is the “cats meow” than why did you ever; cheat, constantly break up and fight with him. You tell me that I was or am, your prince charming but I so want to connect on more than just a physical level. I want so much more, it’s like I’m thirst, to connect and commit on a emotional, spiritual, and intellectual level. I want to give of myself to you but I continue to be kept at an arm’s distant. If its not one thing that reminds her of him its another and no its not verbalized but it is written on her face. Every time you go back home and I am not invited my heart drops. Then when I ask you about the trip I get half of the story. Its not fair I am open and honest with her but its reciprocated. This last time she went back and then came back here she was acting different and why do you think. Because her past is still in her life and finally told me he probably always will be. How do you move forward if you are holding on to your past? You say that your family still invites him over to the house and he still hangs out with you like everything is cool. I don’t understand it I don’t question it and I refuse to make someone do something they don’t want to do. But I just want to be enough for you. I want this relationship to be different from any other relationship that you have ever had. Maybe I am misguided in wanting you to distant yourself from him, but can you blame me? For seven years you all have been off and on. So what do I do because I don’t see us moving forward. My pursuit of this relationship do I just stop or should I continue on waiting for her to open not only her eyes but her heart? Love doesn’t come around everyday but people say that you will know when its right…

]]> By: Preston http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-3628 Preston Wed, 13 Aug 2008 22:40:18 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-3628 Nice post FG. I hit on the same thing in one of our "Ask A Guy" segments. All the good guys aren't taken...they're just being overlooked... "Since this section is called “Ask A Guy”, the answers are obviously geared toward the women who inquired. However, in this case the reverse is also very true. There are some good dudes out there who get cheated on because there immature girlfriend couldn’t shake the spell of her last loser boyfriend or the drug dealer from her neighborhood she never got to fuck. I’m just sayin…" Nice post FG. I hit on the same thing in one of our “Ask A Guy” segments. All the good guys aren’t taken…they’re just being overlooked…

“Since this section is called “Ask A Guy”, the answers are obviously geared toward the women who inquired. However, in this case the reverse is also very true. There are some good dudes out there who get cheated on because there immature girlfriend couldn’t shake the spell of her last loser boyfriend or the drug dealer from her neighborhood she never got to fuck. I’m just sayin…”

]]> By: Miss G http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-3571 Miss G Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:49:56 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/08/shes-in-love-with-another-man/#comment-3571 I dated other dudes but always came full circle with my ex, he spent 2 and a half years proving to me how good he could treat me only to dumb me cause he was not sure if i would hurt him again, still dealing with the hurt and confusion and just started allowing another into my head and heart and it feels great, i dont think i can deal with seeing him anytime soon and i'm so thankful that he is no longer based in this country and we wont EVER run into each other. The new guy... not gonna let that man go, he is my ideal definition of what my "shrek" should be. I dated other dudes but always came full circle with my ex, he spent 2 and a half years proving to me how good he could treat me only to dumb me cause he was not sure if i would hurt him again, still dealing with the hurt and confusion and just started allowing another into my head and heart and it feels great, i dont think i can deal with seeing him anytime soon and i’m so thankful that he is no longer based in this country and we wont EVER run into each other. The new guy… not gonna let that man go, he is my ideal definition of what my “shrek” should be.

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