“What’s up with you? I saw your new profile pic, and you’re looking damned good.” “The men out in Phoenix are lucky … I need to spend my vacation out there.” Another day, another opportunity to flirt with all of the beautiful women online. As I was doing it, I knew my girlfriend at the time wouldn’t appreciate my comments to other women, but in my mind it was all completely harmless

I know you weren’t expecting this from me today, but I really need to say this. We’ve been friends for a while now, and I’ve been here each and every time a guy has taken your heart and abused it. And to be perfectly honest with you, I’m tired of it.

I’m of the sincere belief that some children never had a chance from birth … and it’s all a product of bad parenting. So when a former love cheated on me, and then went on to do the same to every other dude, I could look back on the dysfunction in her childhood and see that she was never around healthy relationships (That didn’t excuse her actions, but still.)

Dear Fly Guy, This is embarrassing to admit, but I’m having a real hard time meeting new women. It isn’t because I’m unattractive either; I just think I’m addicted to masturbation. Whenever my boys are trying to go out, I come up with some reason to stay home and watch porn.

Dear Fly Guy, I need help with trusting my wife. I know that she loves me and regards me as the man of her dreams, but every time we get around other men, I’m afraid she’s looking at them. She’s a very beautiful woman, and commands a great amount of attention whenever she enters a room, which is a bit unnerving.

When I think about the definition of love in its purest form, my mind often drifts to Virtue’s “Nothing Ever Mattered.” Pay close attention to the lyrics as they paint a vivid portrait of how true love should feel when you first encounter it.

I woke up to “her” this morning, knowing in my heart that I wasn’t supposed to be there. My heart had left the relationship weeks ago, and had taken up it’s rightful place with you. The rest of me needs to be there as well.

When I read my morning devotional, I knew that it was meant for me to share. There’s someone currently reading this who is struggling with their ability to move past the pain of an old relationship. I hope that the following message provides the needed encouragement to keep your head up and keep pushing forward. Brighter days are ahead.

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At this point, you have probably lost all hope that we would ever speak again. I know that I should have called sooner, but the coward in me wanted to avoid this conversation all together … well, until now. I’ve finally mustered up the courage to reach out and apologize on several fronts.