Excuse me if I’m interrupting you, but I’d like to formally introduce myself. I know that we often move in the same circles and know the same people, but we’ve never had the opportunity to speak face to face … that is, until now. Look, I know I only have but a fleeting moment to capture your attention, so I’ll get straight to the point…

A wise man once said, “Tell your girlfriend everything about your past to avoid any drama.” Of course, he said this shortly before she broke up with him … I didn’t get all of the details, but it had something to do with his strange “Frankie and Neffie” sex fetish. (Don’t ask.)

Attention guys, I think it’d be a good idea not to cheat on your woman. The obvious reason being that well, cheating is wrong. But outside of that undeniable truth, you need to know that women are currently plotting on all cheaters. (Are any women reading this??? I don’t want to be guilty by association … I’m just saying.)

I believe in love … always have, always will. So when I’m moved to write about the highs and lows that love brings, I do it in hopes that it will in turn inspire others to do the same. A piece that I wrote entitled, “You’ll Miss Me When I’m Gone,” triggered a very poignant response from an extremely talented writer that I wanted to share.

Dear Beyonce, There are a few things that I need to get off my chest, and I figured the best way to express them in an organized manner was to write you a letter. At this point, the excitement has died down over your latest single, “Ego.” But before the American public completely moves on to something new, I did want to share this…

Dear Fly Guy, I’ve been following your work for quite some time, and I have to give you props on discussing relationships in an unbiased way. When the fellas are out of line, you call us out; but you also do the same to the women. I have to wonder though if the women are really listening to you.

We all come from different backgrounds, which I’ve come to both understand and appreciate. It’s those same differences that make this world so great, and what ultimately creates the spice within our romantic relationships. But no matter how different we are, or what we may believe in, we all experience tough periods in our lives—especially in the area of love.

She told me that all men lie. And while her words initially caught me off guard, I’m sure there are countless women who share a similar mindset. But I’ve got news for them: women lie just as much as men do—especially during the course of a relationship.

Let me get straight to the point. Breaking up sucks—especially when you can’t get the other person out of your system. To add insult to injury, your ex isn’t giving you a second thought while you’re up having sleepless nights. It doesn’t always have to be this way though, and the following Three Ways To Get Over Someone can help.

Attention ladies and gentlemen, I have a public service announcement. As much as we pretend like the physical side of our relationship is less important than the mental and emotional aspects when it comes to long-term stability, I have news for you … that may not be the truth.