Hi Fly Guy, I need some insight. I’m just coming out of a 2 ½ year relationship with my high school sweetheart. I broke up with him at the beginning of my sophomore year after a summer of living together. I felt like I needed to focus more on my studies and experience college as a single woman.

I ran across this feature on the rules of rebounding that I wanted to share. As always, I encourage you to read, comment and share with a friend. Oh, and if there’s anything that you’d like to share with the Fly Community, just shoot me an email, and let me know what it is.

As we head into the weekend, I thought I’d give you a special video edition of our audio love segment. Here are a few songs that articulate a wide range of emotions that I’m sure we’ve all experienced at some point on our relationship journey. So enjoy the music, and have a great weekend.

Dear Fly Guy, Last week I got frustrated with my boyfriend and sent him a long email stating I no longer wanted to be with him. I also told him that he had nothing to offer me, and that I was unhappy in the relationship. But when I said it, I was PMS’ing.

If you’ve been following me for a while, then you know that I’ve featured Sara Bareilles’ “Gravity” as a past Fly Lyrics selection. But even now, the song continues to resonate with me, as countless readers still struggle with the tough task of breaking free from the clutches of an old flame.

When we first met, I immediately knew that you would always be an important part of life. But now … I’m not so sure. Your behavior lately is such that I no longer know who you are. Are you the same woman that I initially fell in love with?

The emails keep pouring in from male readers longing to know the answer to the following universal mystery… “What do women like?” And while many of my love advice colleagues will be quick to spit out an extensive list, I’ve remained quiet on the subject.

In our last entry, a male friend expressed his frustration of constantly hearing women lament the lack of good men. In his opinion, the women who usually expressed their unhappiness had no room to talk.

I had an interesting conversation with one of my boys yesterday. But instead of translating his sentiments, I figured I’d just give you the unfiltered version of what he said.

As the Chris Brown apology continues to make its way around the Internet, a few thoughts immediately entered my mind after watching his speech. Before I present those to the group, here’s a brief excerpt from the transcript.