I Wish We Never Met … Seriously

Jul 13th, 2009 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Perspectives
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I’ve often wondered why I met you. And I don’t mean that in a disrespectful way, so hear me out before you view this as an attack. It’s just that … well, life seemed so much better before I met you.

I was happy.
My career was on the rise.
And to be perfectly honest with you, my skin was clearer and my teeth were whiter (seriously.)

So when you came along, I simply viewed you as the icing on the cake—the perfect addition to an already perfect life. And for a time, that perception proved accurate…

But the luster would soon fade…
The fights would increase…
And our world together came crashing down…

Now that I’m left to pick up the pieces, I can’t help but wish we never met. You know, I always hear people saying that people enter your life for a reason. But I’ve yet to come up with one plausible excuse to justify how far I’ve fallen from grace as a result of you.

So as far as I’m concerned, I’m the exception to that rule … and I officially wish we never met.

There I said it.

Have a good day … or not.

________________________

Fly Question: Who does this apply to? I feel like there are more than a few people in your life that you wish you never met. Right or not, it’s how you feel. So talk to me.

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  • http://facebook.com/evamean The_Pretty_Truth

    It’s mean to say but I wish I could send this to someone right now. But on the flip side. I know he wishes he never met me…

    :*(

  • ffdiva001

    Whoa! This could apply to a few people. Then one could ask, what the heck is wrong with you to pick up all these losers? My answer, it’s not me. It would have to be my son’s father(he probably wish he never might me either), and two of my ex’s…especially this last one*shuddering at the thought of him*

  • http://ebonyelle.net nica

    alternate title:ode to my ex? lol.

  • http://lovelybrowngirl.blogspot.com Lovely Brown Girl

    Literally, every word of this applies to my Mr. Ex. Like, I had to go get my teeth specially-whitened after I ditched him b/c somehow he’d effected me so profoundly that he even took a toll on my teeth. SMH. Good riddance!

  • davebu

    everyone has an impact on your life, the person you write about in this has definitely impacted your life, you may think you would have been better off without ever meeting them, but you would be mistaken. take what you have learned from being with them, whether it be things you miss about them, or things you hate about them. use that to help you make better decisions in people similar to them. life is a series of moments, dont let the previous ones ruin the coming ones.

  • CurlyScorpio

    I agree with davebu. I believe there has been a reason for every person that’s been a part of my life. They either were supposed to touch me, let me discover things about myself or vice versa. Heartbreaks and all… I appreciate everyone that’s been in my life. There’s nobody this would apply to. Maybe I’ve thought it during the heat of the moment, but quickly realize I wouldn’t have it any other way.

  • ChoklitGemini

    So sad but true…on the flip side, I am better than the person I was when I met him (I mean let’s face it, do I really want to be the person that chose him)

  • ffdiva001

    you have point davebu

  • TTShellz

    Wow I feel like this about the last guy I dated. I especially hate knowing that I wasted my time and emotions on him. Though I know I deserve better I share FG’s sentiments…

  • Nicki=Maxwell Fan

    I have a perfect song to go along with this post…..

    CARL THOMAS I think it’s called “I wish I never met her”

  • Third_of_August

    This describes the majority of women I’ve met so far in my life.

    As far as lessons learned…I learned from them what I don’t like in a woman….some of them also taught me what I know about this whole ‘relationship game’ as well.

  • amia

    FG…. get outta my head! ; )

  • So Amazing

    Yes yes yes! I was thinking this the other day, and i still dont have a good reason as to why i met this dude. But all things are working in favor of whats meant to be, so i guess im getting closer to my destiny.

  • ShaKTASTIC

    I agree with those that chose the “pro” side of the post. At first I felt like you were a waste of my time and energy. Sometimes I still feel like it lasted too long, but I know I gained so much. I learned more about myself, how to handle his type of personality, and I’m glad I’m no longer the person I was when I was with either ex. Sitting around wishing you never met them is like still being in the relationship because your still focusing on them. Please know that you’ve made it to the other side a better person.

  • dreamlady

    Alot of good points have been made…i agree w/shaktastic it really can be a matter of refocusing the negative energy that makes you feel that way…btw the song “Never See Your Face Again” by Maroon 5 & Rihanna is a complement