How Do You Know If She’s Crazy?Jul 10th, 2009 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Features
Directly following the passing of Steve McNair, there were so many relationship questions that needed to be addressed. Wait… let me backtrack and express myself in a way that’s more open and honest. Steve McNair was murdered … period. To make matters worse, he was struck down at the hands of his mistress. The unfortunate decision to cheat on his wife, in conjunction with a woman who was pushed to the point of mental instability led to his untimely death. It’s sad; it’s unfortunate; it’s a dictionary’s worth of adjectives that all describe the anguish and turmoil both families must be going through.
I can’t even imagine what they’re experiencing right now…
For the most part, I’ve kept quiet on the subject, since it’s my belief that there are so many variables that led to this tragedy (some that we may never know). It wasn’t just him cheating, or her being crazy. Instead it was a host of variables acting in concert…all leading to a violent end of life.
So before I get worked up, and start writing a dissertation on the subject, I wanted to focus on a very specific point. A good friend and one helluva party promoter and businessman, TiwaWorks posed the following question on Facebook as it relates to this tragedy:
WHAT ARE THE RED FLAGS THAT WARN YOU THAT THE 2ND WOMAN IS NOT STABLE?
Here are some of the answers from people around the country that stuck out to me.
Latoyia Zachery at 7:55pm July 8
When she would agree to be 2nd in the first place;-)…only an unstable person would want to be 2nd…lol
Lisa Paulycarpe at 7:59pm July 8
When she thinks u will leave #1 for her!!
Jelani Bass at 8:01pm July 8
when she starts asking too many questions about the 1st woman
Komplaintosomeoneelse Wright at 8:07pm July 8
when she stalks u, calls u n txts u all the time n doesnt get the hint when u dont pick up
Russell Lawrence Benford at 8:09pm July 8
When she’s born and raised in Atlanta lol
Yomi O Adesanya at 8:35pm July 8
When she ask that dreaded question ” what are we doing” , knowing fully well she’s the second on the depth chart
Jessica Wray Brinkley at 8:54pm July 8
when she starts sittin outside your house!
Trina Collier at 9:43pm July 8
when the bitch look up a reverse phone number and wind up @ your house !!!
Andrea Pierce at 3:07pm July 9
When you look down at your phone and you have 54 missed calls from her!!! LOL
Fly Request: We’re not done with this topic, but I’d still like to get your opinion. Now that you’ve read some of the responses, what’s your take on the question posed above?
**In no way do I endorse anyone having a second man or woman … nor do I endorse people reacting violently to a situation that they put themselves in (like dating someone that’s married.) In due time, I’ll put a nice, neat bow on all of this by articulating my thoughts. I just want to make sure my position on those two points are clear.
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