Five Types of Women That All Men Hate
Jul 10th, 2009 | Author: The Fly Guy | Category: The Chronicles
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(Fly Note: I’ve been paying close attention to the letters that you’ve been sending me, and I think it’s time to revisit this topic. If you’ve read it before, then brush up on your notes. If this is your first time, then pay close attention.)
It’s time to officially clear the air. There seems to be this common misconception, which suggests that men have lower standards when choosing a mate. That couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, men are a lot pickier than we lead you to believe. To prove this point, I’ve decided to share “Five Types of Women That All Men Hate.” So pay close attention, and if this sounds like someone you know, then that may explain why they can’t seem to keep a man.
1. Ms. “Stick In The Mud”
This woman never seems to have any fun … ever. Her idea of a good time is probably a quiet evening at home reading the encyclopedia while eating a Lean Cuisine. On top of that, she doesn’t know how to give or take a joke, since she takes herself way too seriously. Will you relax … please?
2. Ms. “No One Else”
Ms. “No One Else” wants all of your free time—every single second of it. As soon as the two of you get close, she stops talking to all of her friends and expects you to do the same. Some men may reluctantly agree, but that arrangement soon grows old.
3. Ms. “Something To Prove”
Ms. “Something To Prove” has always worked hard to show the world she was capable of doing anything she set her mind to. And while the entire male population applauds her strength, we get kind of tired of her reminding us about it throughout the entire date.
“I’ve got a good job.”
“I don’t need a man to do anything for me.”
“I’ve always been independent.”
“I’m going to write a book encouraging other women to be strong like me.”
Honestly, we’d rather listen to a Paula Abdul Greatest Hits album than to sit through an entire evening of that.
4. Ms. “Read My Mind”
For some reason, Ms. “Read My Mind” expects her man to know exactly what she’s thinking at all times. As a result, she constantly tests him, using his responses to gauge his level of love. This type of behavior should be avoided, as very few men are interested in dealing with the constant guessing games.
5. Ms. “Chatterbox”
Communication serves as the cornerstone for all serious relationships. However, some women overdo it a bit. The problem with Ms. “Chatterbox” is that she spends most of her time talking, and none of it listening. Before long, this type of woman grows even more annoying than that one drunk uncle who always tries to hit on your female friends.
The Fly Guy Moral: So now that I have outlined the five types of women that all men hate; what now? Will you continue to hold out hope that he will one day change his mind and accept you as you are? Or will you learn the art of compromise and begin addressing those personal issues that aren’t conducive to a healthy relationship? I pray you choose the latter.
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Great read Fly Guy. You are the only male relationship blogger who critique, not criticize, women in a way that is constructive, not disrespectful.
Right on the dot.
Great article fly guy. I plan to reference to it on on my internet radio show today @ 6 PM.
Your perspective is refreshing! Please tune into my internet radio show EVERY FRIDAY @ 6 PM EST. WQHS.ORG
Be a real man and stop the beat down on women. Know the things that they have to deal with in society and try being there for them for a change. As for those things that you get tired of being reminded of, I am inclined to believe that it is because of men that women have had to be more independent, strong, (not needing a man to do anything for them because history and experiences prove that a man will most likely walk out on his wife and kids,)Having to be both the mother and father in a household makes women have to be the bomb, so if you are tired of being reminded of it, step up.
@yvonne,
I appreciate you leaving a comment, but judging by the tone, I’m pretty sure you’ve never taken the time to really read my work. I don’t beat down women in my writing…never have, and I never will. If anything, I go out of my way to encourage and uplift women, and I work to get more fellas to do the same.
Take some time, and go through the site, and I’m sure you’ll get a more clear depiction of what I represent with this site.
I feel that this article applies to BOTH sexes not just specifically women, and women only. But, this is just a mini list of somethings that many women can not stand when it comes to a man.
1. The “I Know I Look Good Man” therefore, you should be happy that I am dating you in the first place (your a lucky girl)
2. The “Mr. Business Man” I’m so accomplished, therefore the woman is obligated to drop her panties whenever he pleases, because he deserves it.
3. The “Mr.I Bring Home The Bacon” therefore, its okay for me to go up side your head every now and then if the steaks isn’t cooked well done….etc. Overall, at the end of the day people need to be with those whom they connect with and are one accord with emotionally and mentally. God Bless :)
I’m a successful, single mom and I agree with this blog WHOLLY because #1) I know a few of these chicks and #2) I’ve been one of them when I was much younger. No shame in my game because I’m thankful to have grown. Besides, my male friends tell me I should’ve been a guy anyway lol!
Hi-five, bro and you’ve motivated me to spin-off in my blog also. Glad to read ya, will add you to my daily reads… peace & prosperity!
I really appreciated this post and the way you broached the subject. You carefully handled it and allowed the women with these ‘issues’ to put themselves in a position for change
Love this. A lot of people are too blind to see when they are given good advice. No one likes to be critique, it’s interrupted as criticize. I agree that it goes both ways, but 20 yrs from now when you’re alone, don’t wonder why you can’t find a man. Work on becoming a better you. If you are confident, you don’t have to worry about all these things. It’s up to you to decide if someone is worth being with or not. If you are confident in what you being to a relationship, you will not feel the need to control the other person. You can never stop someone from doing what they want to do. If there is a will, there is a way. The important thing is make that person realize the good thing they have and then there will be no need to look else where. If they can’t see it, why would you want that person anyway?
This is a Cool list I buy it, So here my list of the type of men that woman should avoid but they will not because black woman can be so desperate and while men put criteria on you, you don’t have any or you lower them so you can more than likly share a man with another woman. So for the hell of it I will still list them so if you like to hear it hear it goes.
1. Mr. Chris Brown’s need I say more.
2. Mr. I can do what I want I got money. Basically explain itself I got money so you can’t tell him nothing he can come and go as he please, Sex who ever he please and you should be so lucky to have him because he got money bitch. So get you shit straight or you will be replace.
3. Mr. (Asshole Winer) this is for those guys who think they are good men just because they got a good job and no kids but don’t understand why they alone they complain to much, judge to much and are complete assholes who wants to listen to this complaining azz dude all day. Equivalent to Ms Something to prove.
4.Mr. Professional Baby Daddy if you have more than 2 BM you need to marry one of them hoes.
5.Mr. Peter Pan this man never wants to grow up. This is probably most of you Thugs you do everything wrong just grow the fvck up.
Good post, FG.
I’ve ran into a lot of Ms Something to Proves and a lot of Ms. Chatterboxes in my life so far.
It’s one thing to be able to hold down a job and pay your rent and bills on time….We gotcha. We see ya. Nice job. That makes you an ADULT, not necessarily a great WOMAN. LOL
(Besides…who else is gonna buy you that Louis Vuitton purse you’ve been wanting since you were 17? Not me….LOL!)
I Loveeeee This!!!! GREAT!
I think this is a great list Fly Guy! Women should all try to be sure and NOT to do any of the above. We can all use a little consructive criticism, and men can also probably benefit by putting a Mr. in front of numbers 1-5 . LOL!