Comments on: Do Women Need To Step Their Game Up? http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/ Love Advice, Dating Tips, Sex and Love, Celebrity Perspectives Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:46:29 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: emortl4lfe http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/#comment-28032 emortl4lfe Fri, 07 Aug 2009 06:47:12 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2857#comment-28032 I guess I can agree with what S.D. was saying. The whole reverse racism thing threw me for a minute. What I think my man was saying is that he's just tired of that saying. Men are trying to be better but first we have to get opportunity. Women can no longer complain about there being no good men. What are you bringing to the table to make this work? Men are simple. If you tell us what you want that's what we'll give you. If you start out letting us treat you bad then that's what we're going to continue to do. Demand respect from the start and if you can't get it move on. Also be reasonable in your expectations. By no means settle for BS though. I guess I can agree with what S.D. was saying. The whole reverse racism thing threw me for a minute. What I think my man was saying is that he’s just tired of that saying. Men are trying to be better but first we have to get opportunity. Women can no longer complain about there being no good men. What are you bringing to the table to make this work? Men are simple. If you tell us what you want that’s what we’ll give you. If you start out letting us treat you bad then that’s what we’re going to continue to do. Demand respect from the start and if you can’t get it move on. Also be reasonable in your expectations. By no means settle for BS though.

]]> By: ME http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/#comment-27751 ME Sat, 25 Jul 2009 04:41:45 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2857#comment-27751 We as people need to work on ourselves. It goes both ways. Women and men aren't good or bad, it could just be that these people work for someone, just not for you. I agree that women need to work on themselves. Like any situation in life we have to look in the mirror to fix any problem. A lot of men need to work on themselves as well. Its an individual thing not a male or female thing. We as people need to work on ourselves. It goes both ways. Women and men aren’t good or bad, it could just be that these people work for someone, just not for you. I agree that women need to work on themselves. Like any situation in life we have to look in the mirror to fix any problem. A lot of men need to work on themselves as well. Its an individual thing not a male or female thing.

]]> By: Nina Milanis http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/#comment-27691 Nina Milanis Thu, 23 Jul 2009 12:26:00 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2857#comment-27691 Agree. I was reading too deeply. S. Diddy, you're right. He is doing the exact same thing. Agree. I was reading too deeply. S. Diddy, you’re right. He is doing the exact same thing.

]]> By: Arealmansperspective http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/#comment-27688 Arealmansperspective Thu, 23 Jul 2009 07:26:47 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2857#comment-27688 But honestly ladies you know wheter a man is worth the trouble within the first month or two of being with him. So to wrap it up, ladies if you know that you have a brotha that is trying to be good to you try to work with him PLEASE( but not at the expense of your own happiness). Just something to think about. But honestly ladies you know wheter a man is worth the trouble within the first month or two of being with him. So to wrap it up, ladies if you know that you have a brotha that is trying to be good to you try to work with him PLEASE( but not at the expense of your own happiness). Just something to think about.

]]> By: Arealmansperspective http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/#comment-27687 Arealmansperspective Thu, 23 Jul 2009 07:10:24 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2857#comment-27687 I will try not to draw this out. I've heard what everyone had to say and I think most people try to read to deeply into this subject. I have to disagree with what your homey said. Their is an abundance of good women, however at the same time there are alot of good men too. I think the way some women determine wheter a man is good or not is often flawwed. Truthfully most men are going to f up. We are sexual predators (if you will) and we make mistakes. So ladies try this, instead of judging wheter a man is good or not by his mistakes, try judging wheter he's a good man based off what he learns from his mistakes. Now don't get me wrong am I saying if a guy cheats on you( or whatever the case may be) after only being with him a month should try to work things. No way, I will try not to draw this out. I’ve heard what everyone had to say and I think most people try to read to deeply into this subject. I have to disagree with what your homey said. Their is an abundance of good women, however at the same time there are alot of good men too. I think the way some women determine wheter a man is good or not is often flawwed. Truthfully most men are going to f up. We are sexual predators (if you will) and we make mistakes. So ladies try this, instead of judging wheter a man is good or not by his mistakes, try judging wheter he’s a good man based off what he learns from his mistakes. Now don’t get me wrong am I saying if a guy cheats on you( or whatever the case may be) after only being with him a month should try to work things. No way,

]]> By: nica http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/#comment-27684 nica Thu, 23 Jul 2009 02:53:30 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2857#comment-27684 @S. Didddy, I totally missed that but you are absolutely right! He is doing exactly what he is saying the women he is dealing with are doing. Is it just safe to say birds of a feather flock together and for the sake of FGC, men and women both need to step their game up? I think so... @S. Didddy,
I totally missed that but you are absolutely right! He is doing exactly what he is saying the women he is dealing with are doing. Is it just safe to say birds of a feather flock together and for the sake of FGC, men and women both need to step their game up? I think so…

]]> By: s.diddy http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/#comment-27682 s.diddy Thu, 23 Jul 2009 01:08:01 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2857#comment-27682 I dont agree with what ole boy is saying at all. He is basically doing reverse racism. He's doing exactly what he's complaining about. Placing all women in a particular category because of the type of women thus far he has encountered; which is the wrong thing to do. Again, what is he bringing to the table? Its not about one side people, its a relationship. There has to be give and take from both parties who WANT a strong, healthy union. I dont agree with what ole boy is saying at all. He is basically doing reverse racism. He’s doing exactly what he’s complaining about. Placing all women in a particular category because of the type of women thus far he has encountered; which is the wrong thing to do. Again, what is he bringing to the table? Its not about one side people, its a relationship. There has to be give and take from both parties who WANT a strong, healthy union.

]]> By: nspirin http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/#comment-27681 nspirin Thu, 23 Jul 2009 00:50:41 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2857#comment-27681 It's time for us to STOP LOOKING for a good man/woman and BE READY for that good one when they come along. So maybe we(men & women) should get our *ish together then and only then will we find the ONE for us. It’s time for us to STOP LOOKING for a good man/woman and BE READY for that good one when they come along.

So maybe we(men & women) should get our *ish together then and only then will we find the ONE for us.

]]> By: teas http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/#comment-27676 teas Wed, 22 Jul 2009 22:10:50 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2857#comment-27676 For the most part I agree however, it's goes back to what others have stated...what do you define as good? Everyone has different criterias on what they consider good..with that being said we as women, especially black women, knows what it's like to be educated and "doing it for ourselves" and to find black man on the same level,it's hard (that's without the drama). Our men need to stop using these rappers, sport figures, etc as role models and go back to what family and communities responsibilities are. We as women need to allow men to be men and stop taking om their roles and feel like we are men ourselves. If a woman or man feels they are good quality there is no need to complain, there's a person out there for you, just give it time. For the most part I agree however, it’s goes back to what others have stated…what do you define as good? Everyone has different criterias on what they consider good..with that being said we as women, especially black women, knows what it’s like to be educated and “doing it for ourselves” and to find black man on the same level,it’s hard (that’s without the drama). Our men need to stop using these rappers, sport figures, etc as role models and go back to what family and communities responsibilities are. We as women need to allow men to be men and stop taking om their roles and feel like we are men ourselves. If a woman or man feels they are good quality there is no need to complain, there’s a person out there for you, just give it time.

]]> By: nica http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/07/do-women-need-to-step-their-game-up/#comment-27670 nica Wed, 22 Jul 2009 20:24:24 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2857#comment-27670 I agree with Nina Milanis. I think your friend just has it twisted a little. There are women who can't find good men, that is a fact. Sometimes, there are other factors that determine why they are single, such as kids, or bad credit...which does not subtract from a woman's ability of being whatever definition of good. Then there are good men who are likewise single. Not having a mate does not make you less of quality. Nor does complaining. It's difficult experimenting with the dating world. It's so easy to dig on the surface and find crap. To repeatedly do that as many do is frustrating and may even lead to complaining. Maybe the individual should be real with themselves and figure out what it is their looking for and be honest about that. If it's a dog that they are looking for, then don't be upset when u can't tame him/her.with that said, both should step their game up! I agree with Nina Milanis. I think your friend just has it twisted a little. There are women who can’t find good men, that is a fact. Sometimes, there are other factors that determine why they are single, such as kids, or bad credit…which does not subtract from a woman’s ability of being whatever definition of good. Then there are good men who are likewise single. Not having a mate does not make you less of quality. Nor does complaining. It’s difficult experimenting with the dating world. It’s so easy to dig on the surface and find crap. To repeatedly do that as many do is frustrating and may even lead to complaining. Maybe the individual should be real with themselves and figure out what it is their looking for and be honest about that. If it’s a dog that they are looking for, then don’t be upset when u can’t tame him/her.with that said, both should step their game up!

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