Capturing The Sunlight Of Your Situation

Jul 27th, 2009 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Perspectives
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Before we officially close the chapter on this Sunday, I wanted to share something that has been on my heart for the past few days. You know, it’s easy to look at your situation and think that you’re the only person going though it—especially when it comes to matters of the heart.

When you’re single, people are quick to say, “Be patient. Your special person is out there.” But that’s not very reassuring when those words are coming from someone already happy and in love.

So let me say them to you … that’s right, as a single man.

I believe that God has blessed me with a unique understanding of love and relationships, which is the main reason that I write and express myself. But for all of that relational understanding, I have yet to meet the woman created to be my soul’s counterpoint.

But I know she’s coming.

So as I patiently await her arrival, I ask that you do the same. But the key word here is “patiently.” There’s no need to force any square pegs into the circles of your life (which is something that I used to do all the time.) Just relax, and let things happen as they’re supposed to. When that special man or woman comes along, I guarantee it will be worth the wait.

In the meantime, just enjoy life, and enjoy the wonderful family and friends that you’ve been blessed with. Deal?

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  • NaturaLly Jay

    mmm.. i mean so many questions pop up to mind as i read but only il ask what happends when you enjoy life begin to sight see but you kinda dont want to go at it alone you know. like when your able to bring someone along but you want them to be special those places you go see wont look the same or feel the same when you have someone special with you to share it with?

    or….What happends when you begin to get use to being alone and enjoying every minute to find your 35 with no children that you planed on having at 24 and no husband or wife you shared some of your life with ?(This example is very Hypothetically example of course, im soooooo not in this age bracket)…lol :) That would really suck in my book ya kno.

  • http://facebook.com/PennyTheGameMaster Third_of_August

    I’m impatient as hell….and I’m also TIRED of everyone saying that same line to me….

    “Just focus on yourself and be patient…The right woman will come along when it’s time…..”

    I sometimes want to ask them, “Since everyone’s Miss Cleo these days…..anyone wanna tell me when ‘that time’ is?” LOL

    And then I get to sit and watch everyone else I know practically move at light speed when it comes to their relationships while I’m stuck at port waiting on a co-pilot. LOL

  • Vega106

    Fly Guy I hear ya but it’s hard. All my friends are either in a relationship, married or about to get married.

  • TTCHICK

    I can so relate to FG and all of the comments especially as I approach 30 it gets harder but I refuse to settle and rush destiny. It is comforting to know I’m not alone. It reminds of the lyrics to ‘Soulmate’ by Natasha Bedingfield.

  • Neversatisfied

    That’s the same advice I give others…yet sometimes I feel empty because I don’t have a special someone. Hard words to truly follow…