Comments on: Are There No Good Men? One Woman Responds

By: xenon

xenon — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 01:18:01 +0000

She is telling SOME truths – the rest doesn’t always follow… Sorry, I missed the ‘DEAD ON’ bus :-)

By: 500K Flea

500K Flea — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 23:23:51 +0000

Back then they didn’t want me/now I’m hot they all on me!!!

By: RareJewel

RareJewel — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 21:04:44 +0000

@ Third_of_August
LOL I gotcha… LMAO!

By: Third_of_August

Third_of_August — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 15:43:15 +0000

@ Rare

By all means….get your stuff together! But I don’t think you should have to tun down a good man should he approach you while you’re in that process…..why can’t the two of you build together? As a man, it’s refreshing to meet women that can see where the train is heading and actually WANT TO BE THERE DURING THE RIDE instead of all these Mike Jones, vapor-catching, You-weren’t-worth-my-time-when-you-were-on-the-come-up-but-now-that-you-ballin’-I-wanna-act-interested type women all over the place.

By: RareJewel

RareJewel — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 19:29:50 +0000

She is sooooo speaking the truth..becareful what you ask for you just might get it…you best make sure your stuff is in order…Dang FG so this mean i got to turn down Mr Right when he steps my way? Cause i got some things to get in order…it’s soooo much competition out here… I’m almost to Irreplaceable level..LOL….I’m talking stocks and mutual funds…Investment level!!!! not this fake flossing stuff…My man gonna be like dang baby…you investing like that, and your beautiful? Great feed back FG….Ladies get our stuff together! Real men make real moves…but they need a Brilliant mind to keep up with them…They need a woman with physical + Fiscal attraction…if you know what i mean…

By: Forty Something

Forty Something — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 14:13:50 +0000

I agree with all that she said.. she is on point…. we need to look at ourselves first…….

By: CRYSIMLE

CRYSIMLE — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 14:10:33 +0000

I am in total agreement with Mrs. Cooper-Sykes. In addition, I feel compelled to point out that I am finding more problems with women (including myself), than the men we seek. There are plenty of women who want to find that man to “upgrade” them, their lifestyles, and to usher them into happiness. However, because so many women live with hidden strife, either because they don’t know who they are or where they are going in life they choose NOT to face their own problems and fix them before understanding the kind of man that can compliment them as a human being. As Mrs. Cooper-Sykes stated some women are looking to go too high and expect a man to carry them when they haven’t even learned how to carry themselves. Baby steps ladies…and start with yourselves…

By: Third_of_August

Third_of_August — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 04:26:32 +0000

@ S.Diddy

“In addition to that, why cant the man have a humble start, have nothing, the woman have a humble start, have nothing but when these two souls who are in it TOGETHER can TOGETHER come up and have everything….TOGETHER.”

Because that sounds too much like how our parents used to do it. And it almost sounds too much like IT MAKES SENSE. LOL

Seriously, though….people aren’t willing to work together anymore. I’ve never seen so many fairweather women in my life…you know….nobody wants to be there when you’re on the come-up, but the second you make it big, everyone wants to act like they were in your corner the whole time. Y’all ain’t slick……..and it will not go down like that.

By: s.diddy

s.diddy — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 23:18:14 +0000

Lord Jesus! I think Im in love. This is exactly what I was saying on the previous post ,”The Single Woman Blues”(yall go back and check that out on my homie Fly Guy archive from Monday). In addition to that, why cant the man have a humble start, have nothing, the woman have a humble start, have nothing but when these two souls who are in it TOGETHER can TOGETHER come up and have everything….TOGETHER. You heard what Drake said, ” when I get right, I promise we gonna live it up”. Its a partnership. Bring more than your appetite ladies and a good man is guaranteed to show up.

By: Andrea

Andrea — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 21:41:42 +0000

I completely agree with what she had to say. You can’t ask for something you’re not willing to give.