Archive for July 2009

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Dream Women Do Exist

Jul 31st, 2009 | By The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Perspectives

I woke up this morning feeling an overwhelming sense of contentment. What’s interesting is that I honestly had no idea where it was coming from. Was I glad to be seeing another day? Was I satisfied that my career as a writer was finally taking off? Or maybe I was just reveling in the joys of having a family that supported my hustle?



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Who Cheats More: Men or Women?

Jul 31st, 2009 | By The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Guy TV

Next week, I’ll be diving headfirst into my annual cheating series. So as we prepare to dissect the mindset of a cheater, I thought I’d get the ball rolling by asking the following age-old question … Who cheats more: men or women?



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Recession-Proof Your Relationship In 3 Steps

Jul 30th, 2009 | By The Fly Guy | Category: The Chronicles

Let’s face facts; money’s tight right now. With the economy contracting and the cost of living inflating more than Lil Kim’s lips, the financial landscape for the average guy in a relationship has become more arduous than Congress managing bailout funds. Thankfully, there’s a solution.



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F*ck Him, F*ck Her … Let’s Laugh

Jul 29th, 2009 | By The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Foolishness

F*ck her? F*ck him? Honestly that’s how some of you feel right now about that “special” person in your life. But instead of me giving you words of wisdom (especially since you’re not trying to hear it right now), I thought it’d be better if we shared a laugh instead.



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4 Signs That You’re A Bad Kisser

Jul 28th, 2009 | By The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Features

Have you ever wondered how that special woman feels after you lean in for that first kiss? Well if you’re anything like me, you’re hoping that firecrackers just exploded throughout her body, which will in turn have her restless the entire night as she contemplates the next time she’ll be close to you.



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Am I Being An Unreasonable Woman?

Jul 28th, 2009 | By The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Letters

Dear Fly Guy, I just read your article, Five Types of Women Men Hate, and I have a question about Ms. “Stick in the Mud.” I am married and I am friends with a few of my husband’s female friends (he always kept me around them).



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Women Won’t Give Us A Break

Jul 27th, 2009 | By The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Letters

Fly Guy, I’m just wondering how I can get past this “all men cheat” label that we seem to be stuck with. I’m dating someone now, and I feel like I have to jump through extra hoops just to prove I’m not like other dudes.



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I’ll Miss You Lauren London- A Fly Reflection

Jul 27th, 2009 | By The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Guy TV

While everyone seems to enjoy discussing Lauren London’s future as baby mama #_____to Lil Wayne (we’re still trying to confirm the official number), I have somberly sat on the sidelines turning a deaf ear to the discussion. For the longest time, I refused to believe that the apple of my eye would fall prey to Mr. “Every Girl.”



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Are Divorce Settlements Fair?

Jul 27th, 2009 | By The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Perspectives

Now that Nas has been ordered to pay Kelis $50k a month in child support payments, the talk has shifted from the broken nature of their relationship to the fairness of divorce courts in how they determine settlement amounts. From what I’ve read, public opinion seems to be sharply divided on how fair his payments are, with most of the male population finding the amount absurd.



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Capturing The Sunlight Of Your Situation

Jul 27th, 2009 | By The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Perspectives

Before we officially close the chapter on this Sunday, I wanted to share something that has been on my heart for the past few days. You know, it’s easy to look at your situation and think that you’re the only person going though it—especially when it comes to matters of the heart.