Comments on: You Stimulate Me

By: Denisha

Denisha — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 20:56:11 +0000

I need physical stimulation initially but mental stimulation to keep me.

By: bayou classic

bayou classic — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 21:39:52 +0000

if u can’t stimulate me mentally, u have no chance at stimulating me physically. the brain is the most powerful part of your body. but just in case it gets physical, the tongue is the strongest muscle – relative to size. =D

By: Blessed Princess

Blessed Princess — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 02:18:37 +0000

Mentally…generally that stirs up physical stimulation. A WIN WIN

By: Royalty

Royalty — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 21:37:16 +0000

This is such a difficult decision. Of course, I would rather have them both. But to chose, I would rather be stimulated mentally. Physically is great too but after a while it gets boring and I long for a challege. I get detached very quickly if there isn’t anything to hold my interest. So while physically would be great, for a potential mate, it’s all mental.

By: MizSwani

MizSwani — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 19:51:29 +0000

although i am a person that can express my passion more so physically than verbally, a man that is able stimulate me mentally can take me to higher heights and keep me on cloud 9.

By: Milly

Milly — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 12:47:40 +0000

stimulate the mind

By: Gish

Gish — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 09:05:19 +0000

Mental stimulation,it starts in the mind.am not too keen physical but a man with whom i can hold a proper conversation is for me the best.

By: souldiva

souldiva — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 23:06:28 +0000

Definitely mental and like DrumLife said, sex (GREAT sex) is a physical representation of a mental connection. The greatest sex for me has always been with someone I strongly felt mentally and emotionally connected too. The physical is just a bonus. I also look at it from the standpoint that looks are fleeting. You can build a relationship off the mental but a relationship off the physical alone wouldn’t last as long.

By: Tubbs

Tubbs — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 17:45:41 +0000

Real talk, I’ve never had a woman stimulate my mind until we had been together for a while. So I guess you know what my answer is.

The politically correct answer is to say mental, but I’m not buying it.

By: thedrumlife

thedrumlife — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 17:31:18 +0000

I prefer mental stimulation. My head is the core of everything that makes me… ME. Yes, the physical is what gets my attn first, but I don’t necessarily want to have sex w/ you because ur beautiful. You have to have something else to offer, we need to be on similar wave lengths…everything from her conversation, the way she thinks to her dreams & aspirations should speak to me. Sex , to me atleast, is the physical manifestation of the joining of our minds…its an experience…surreal even.

So, again…mental stimulation is what I prefer because it leads to the physical.