You Stimulate Me
Jun 22nd, 2009 | Author: The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Perspectives
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Today, like most days, began with a familiar routine. I climbed out of bed, fell to my knees, and thanked God for another opportunity to better myself. In case you haven’t noticed, the past week has been a stagnant creative period for me. But instead of forcing something uninspired down your throats, I just continued to live life, confident that the skies would eventually break open, raining down some fresh insight upon me.
Not knowing when that inspiration would come, I began catching up on old email, which led me to a particularly interesting message on Facebook.
“Your site is impressive, and I found your topics refreshing and stimulating. I, too, am a writer and would like to pursue it fulltime in the near future.”
Kinder words couldn’t have been spoken. And as I lived with her words for a moment, something began to stir within. It was like my creative life force had suddenly come alive again … I was reenergized. But I couldn’t be selfish with the moment. There had to be some way to relate this experience back to our Fly Journey together.
And then it hit me.
The message said that my work stimulated her … or for the purpose of this piece, “I” stimulated her. But it wasn’t a stimulation of the sexual variety. No, there was something about my words that spoke to her, and in the process mentally enticed her. Which got me thinking; if you had to choose between the two, would you rather a potential mate stimulate you mentally or physically? There are positives to both, but which one is an absolute must in your life?
Vote below, and then take the time to comment to explain your views.
As for me, and what this piece means personally….it means that I’m back. And I will do everything within my power to avoid a week long absence again.
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It sucks to choose but Mentally
Is This A TRICK Question? I Could Take Up A Class Online For Mental Stimulation If I Needed That!
mentally. Phyiscal doesn’t sustain anyone after a while
mental stimulation is very sexy amd is a HUGE turn on!
physically
I say physical. I won’t get to the mental if I’m not intially stimulated by you physically.
I prefer mental stimulation. My head is the core of everything that makes me… ME. Yes, the physical is what gets my attn first, but I don’t necessarily want to have sex w/ you because ur beautiful. You have to have something else to offer, we need to be on similar wave lengths…everything from her conversation, the way she thinks to her dreams & aspirations should speak to me. Sex , to me atleast, is the physical manifestation of the joining of our minds…its an experience…surreal even.
So, again…mental stimulation is what I prefer because it leads to the physical.
Real talk, I’ve never had a woman stimulate my mind until we had been together for a while. So I guess you know what my answer is.
The politically correct answer is to say mental, but I’m not buying it.
Definitely mental and like DrumLife said, sex (GREAT sex) is a physical representation of a mental connection. The greatest sex for me has always been with someone I strongly felt mentally and emotionally connected too. The physical is just a bonus. I also look at it from the standpoint that looks are fleeting. You can build a relationship off the mental but a relationship off the physical alone wouldn’t last as long.
Mental stimulation,it starts in the mind.am not too keen physical but a man with whom i can hold a proper conversation is for me the best.
stimulate the mind
although i am a person that can express my passion more so physically than verbally, a man that is able stimulate me mentally can take me to higher heights and keep me on cloud 9.
This is such a difficult decision. Of course, I would rather have them both. But to chose, I would rather be stimulated mentally. Physically is great too but after a while it gets boring and I long for a challege. I get detached very quickly if there isn’t anything to hold my interest. So while physically would be great, for a potential mate, it’s all mental.
Mentally…generally that stirs up physical stimulation. A WIN WIN
if u can’t stimulate me mentally, u have no chance at stimulating me physically. the brain is the most powerful part of your body. but just in case it gets physical, the tongue is the strongest muscle – relative to size. =D
I need physical stimulation initially but mental stimulation to keep me.