This Is My Grown Man Confession

Jun 9th, 2009 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Perspectives
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Before I begin, I have to admit that I’m not entirely sure of what I want to accomplish by writing this. On the one hand, a small part of me wants to use this opportunity to express my optimism in the possibility of there one day being an “us.” On the other hand, I might be better served by rattling off my positive attributes to further stake my claim as all that you could ever want or need in a man.

None of that seems right though … not for this.

For the first time in my life, I have clarity. And through these unobstructed eyes, I see a woman who not only meets, but exceeds my expectations. To be perfectly honest with you, you represent qualities that I never even knew that I wanted in a woman. And I’m spellbound as a result of it.

So as I recalibrate my heart’s compass, and brace myself for the inevitability of you being in my life, a sense of ease slowly overtakes me. My mornings now start with the looming words of my father, who once told me that my success would taste so much sweeter once I had the perfect woman in my life. Well, father knows best … and I think I’m finally ready to experience life’s sugar rush.

And that’s all because of you.

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  • http://blackgirlunlost.blogspot.com Jubilance

    WOW

  • Teas

    this is beautiful…..well written and straight to the point!

  • Tara

    Wow…that’s real talk and I love it!

  • http://reinasong.blogspot.com REINA

    Sigh. I think I just fell in love.

  • http://www.urbanbarbiedoll.com Urban Barbie Doll

    Oh joy. How wonderfully written!!! Sugar rush huh????!!!!!

  • http://www.pigskinlovinglady.com Joslin

    I truly hope that she appreciates you! [sugar rush} Swoon!!

  • WYGBA

    Spellbound? I love it! I hope you shared this with her.

  • http://randomthoughts-alphafemale.blogspot.com TaurusLady

    “Recalibrate my heart’s compass”? DAMN FG!!! Why can’t more dudes talk like that on a regular basis???

    I wish more men could express their feelings to women like that, so beautifully and heartfelt, and with absolutely no artifice.

  • Third_of_August

    Very well written, FG.

    @TaurusLady…There are guys out there that can articulate themselves like the aforementioned….I’d just like to know where the women are that REALLY do appreciate such wordplay.