Comments on: Don’t Holler … Just Talk To Her http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/ Love Advice, Dating Tips, Sex and Love, Celebrity Perspectives Fri, 19 Mar 2010 01:07:03 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Jai http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/#comment-27310 Jai Thu, 11 Jun 2009 23:11:18 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2136#comment-27310 This post was definitely needed! You are so right about other ways to show women how manly men are. That is such a turn off to me when a guy throws out lines like that. Hot mess! Can't wait to read the book! This post was definitely needed! You are so right about other ways to show women how manly men are. That is such a turn off to me when a guy throws out lines like that. Hot mess! Can’t wait to read the book!

]]> By: The R http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/#comment-27287 The R Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:02:32 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2136#comment-27287 Good article and you raised a good point in the end about the measured doses of masculinity you give off. Your example is on one end approach spectrum and Nicki's suggestion, in my opinion, is on the other end. The "Hi how are you, my name is" approach and that will get just about as many blank stares as ole boy's words. Its the same look you give when you go eat at an ethnic restaurant that you've never had before and you order a meal with chicken (who can mess up chicken right) and when they put the plate down it smells like chicken, might even taste like chicken, but you see no part of the chicken that in all your years of eating chicken you recognize...THAT is the look you get. They look at you like "I can see you're a man but you are just so...so...polite...something must be wrong with him". Good article and you raised a good point in the end about the measured doses of masculinity you give off. Your example is on one end approach spectrum and Nicki’s suggestion, in my opinion, is on the other end. The “Hi how are you, my name is” approach and that will get just about as many blank stares as ole boy’s words.
Its the same look you give when you go eat at an ethnic restaurant that you’ve never had before and you order a meal with chicken (who can mess up chicken right) and when they put the plate down it smells like chicken, might even taste like chicken, but you see no part of the chicken that in all your years of eating chicken you recognize…THAT is the look you get. They look at you like “I can see you’re a man but you are just so…so…polite…something must be wrong with him”.

]]> By: Nicki=Maxwell Fan http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/#comment-27266 Nicki=Maxwell Fan Tue, 09 Jun 2009 23:21:22 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2136#comment-27266 PREACH!!!!!!!!! What happened to "Hi how are you, My name is *INSERT NAME*?" I AM SO TIRED of men(or should I say boys) hollering,whistling, and talking about "hey lil mama!" or "hey shorty" or this one "hey bay bay!" UGH!!!!!!!!!!! I do not respond at all and keep it moving. It has gotten to the point where I downplay my looks, and where all black and hats. Just to avoid getting "holla" at. PREACH!!!!!!!!!
What happened to “Hi how are you, My name is *INSERT NAME*?”

I AM SO TIRED of men(or should I say boys) hollering,whistling, and talking about “hey lil mama!” or “hey shorty” or this one “hey bay bay!” UGH!!!!!!!!!!!

I do not respond at all and keep it moving. It has gotten to the point where I downplay my looks, and where all black and hats. Just to avoid getting “holla” at.

]]> By: Third_of_August http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/#comment-27264 Third_of_August Tue, 09 Jun 2009 23:11:36 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2136#comment-27264 I agree...I think my moms would kill me if I ever approached a woman like that. Ironic thing is, it seems like the polite, gentleman's approach doesn't work that well, either. At least not from my experiences. LOL I agree…I think my moms would kill me if I ever approached a woman like that.

Ironic thing is, it seems like the polite, gentleman’s approach doesn’t work that well, either. At least not from my experiences. LOL

]]> By: souldiva http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/#comment-27262 souldiva Tue, 09 Jun 2009 23:07:29 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2136#comment-27262 Great advice for the men because there are way too many of them out there who think its appropriate to approach a woman in that manner. Great advice for the men because there are way too many of them out there who think its appropriate to approach a woman in that manner.

]]> By: Indigowaters http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/#comment-27258 Indigowaters Tue, 09 Jun 2009 22:04:13 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2136#comment-27258 Amen. Amen.

]]> By: Keiko http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/#comment-27255 Keiko Tue, 09 Jun 2009 19:23:26 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2136#comment-27255 I can't wait to buy the book! I can’t wait to buy the book!

]]> By: The Fly Guy http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/#comment-27253 The Fly Guy Tue, 09 Jun 2009 19:07:44 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2136#comment-27253 http://www.facebook.com/share.php?src=bm&v=4&i=1220449642&u=about%3Ablank&t= That may work http://www.facebook.com/share.php?src=bm&v=4&i=1220449642&u=about%3Ablank&t=

That may work

]]> By: yoyolb http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/#comment-27252 yoyolb Tue, 09 Jun 2009 19:04:50 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2136#comment-27252 how do you post this facebook? how do you post this facebook?

]]> By: yoyolb http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/06/dont-holler-just-talk-to-her/#comment-27251 yoyolb Tue, 09 Jun 2009 19:04:00 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=2136#comment-27251 Truer words have never been spoken before. Truer words have never been spoken before.

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