The Truth About Us
Apr 13th, 2009 | Author: The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Perspectives
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I’ve spent the last few days thinking about us, so I began to write. The more I wrote, the closer I inched towards reaching a sincere understanding of our relationship. Here are my thoughts.
This isn’t about sex … It’s about a spiritual connection.
This isn’t about a physical attraction … It’s about mental synergy.
This isn’t about any of my personal desires … It’s about a mutual need to fulfill our destiny.
But here’s where it gets interesting … It’s not about you either.
This isn’t about you comparing me to some checklist … It’s about my ability to fill you with happiness.
This isn’t about any other guy that hurt you in the past … It’s about you and I in the here and now.
This isn’t about what your momma, cousins or girlfriends have to say … It’s about what you feel in your heart.
And when I think about it, what it really comes down to is this:
While it isn’t about you …. or me; it’s really about us as a collective, and our individual willingness to lose ourselves in order to love one another.
I’m ready … are you?
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Another good post FG! Thats real talk especially that checklist comment. Answer those same general pre-written questions upfront can be draining.
Some women need to be more creative when taking time to getting to know a man.
@ blaze:
From someone who asks general pre-written questions? Pffttt!! Getouttahere!
J Thought I know of ALL people you’re not talking. And how would you know…Do I know you outside of FG?
My initial questions are thought provoking. Saves me alot of time from dealing with half stepping sisters.
Nice post! FG
And when I think about it, what it really comes down to is this:
While it isn’t about you …. or me; it’s really about us as a collective, and our individual willingness to lose ourselves in order to love one another.<<<<<<IF THAT AINT THE TRUTH
@ blaze
YOU SAID: Some women need to be more creative when taking time to getting to know a man.
Just wondering..what questions do you not want to hear, I’m trying to get a male perspective so I can better understand
Thanks
Milly..thanks for asking. I think women need to get deeper with brothers than just asking if we have a job, kids, why are u single? very typical.
I had a woman, without coming off intrusive, ask me about my most defining moment, my biggest regret, what decision I would have made differently..to name a few. I don’t mind those questions because the answers I provide says a lot about me. Some guys my be different but thats my opinion.
@ blaze:
Aren’t you the pot calling the kettle, seeing as you are free to make such pronouncements about me when all you know is what is on the FG posts, yet you seek to condemn me from doing the same.
And your questions sound like “How to be Deep for Dummies” handbook. LOL I mean, seriously, someone asking me all that upfront would come off as nosy, and that would rub me the wrong way.
JThought-
Not sure why I continue to get personally attacked every time I share my comments or suggestions. I come to FG to speak my peace and share my opinion with others not to be ridiculed. Personally I prefer for women to ask those type of questions rather it works for you or not, thats my view.
I felt the same way about this guy once! i like this one!
@ blaze
In that case I’m asking the right questions
Thanks Again for responding!
Great post. People are too caught up in trying to stay the same in relationships. You’re not losing yourself, you are gaining.
i just wanted to say thank you for giving me the opportunity to express myself, ive never been the one and your blogs posts really help.
*hugs*
~lissa
@Milly
Thats whats up. I hope all is well
Good afternoon peeps…Hey blaze whats up stranger or am I the stranger? I know I been MIA for a minute.
Whats good Lamico? Been a minute..How are you?
wow
this is beyond deep
@ Blaze
I’m good, can’t complain.Those are some good questions she asked , I must use those and see the results.Can’t wait to see if I get the dumbfounded look or the straight answers with a straight face. lol
This is a very thought-provoking post. Good read, especially part about not what your mother, friends, cousins say….women definitely need to hear that one.
moving