Do We Still Have A Chance?
Apr 7th, 2009 | Author: The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Perspectives
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Look in my eyes and tell me the truth.
Can we still make this thing work? Now before you answer, I want you to place my personal feelings aside. Why? Well, I know how we can sometimes hide the truth in fear of hurting one another, and I don’t want that to be your concern today … I just need to know the truth.
So tell me this…
When you think of me, does your heart still pump as vigorously as it once did? And when you dream of one day starting a family, am I the one holding your hand in the delivery room? Or has that once beautiful picture faded over time?
I have to know…
Am I still the man for you? If not, then go ahead and rip away the Band-Aid that’s currently holding this damaged love together. I’d rather experience the sharp pain of losing you now, than to continue watching us slowly pull away from one another.
I just want to know the truth.
The Fly Discussion: Have you ever held on to a relationship because you didn’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings? Tell me about it.
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I have once before and didn’t feel good while attempting to stay because I felt like I was cheating him as well as myself. We had nothing in common, we came from too different places in life, and our relationship views were different. I stayed with him longer than expected after witnessing how he grew up it was inevitable for him to grow up feeling like no one cared and loved unconditionally, be he loved me in his own way but sometimes that just isn’t enough.I let him go because he was draining me emotionally because he “just didn’t get it” and never will.
Nope, and I’m glad I never did
Sometimes its best to just rip off that ban-aid rather than slowly torture the person by jabbing at it
Nope, but I’ve been on the flipside of this. And I definitely would have appreciated the sudden pain of losing them instead of the slow death. Oh well.
It sounds like from that beautiful exemplum that the man is the one getting hurt. It sounds more like he is the one lingering in the relationship for himself. He got just enough love from her once to keep him put yet not enough to satisfy his thirst for unequivocal love. He’s questioning the love of this woman and can’t quite rip the bandaid off because he’s masochistically attached to the twisted game of never being assured by his partner that he’s “the one”. A healthy thinking human being could and would logically say..rip the bandaid off and move on! Know he will find someone else who can satisfy him the way he desires. But that’s the game of love, Cat & Mouse. We’ve all done it or inevitably will at one point. Hence, the human drama…
no. but i was the one who kept getting the sharp jab. my ex ever since a few days ago couldnt seem to leave me eventhough he didnt want the relationship anymore. i knew it too but i wasnt as strong to walk away. now i am bitter and i hate how much pain i am in because he kept me going with no strength. i now have to deal with these crazy emotions as he is moved on.
I have a long time ago… with that being said I am in a relationship at the moment where I feel like dude is just here b/c he doesn’t wanna hurt my feelings! Some times u know things that the other person doens’t realize that you know… Im so in love with dude, but Id rather see him happy with out me than sittin’ around me moping b/c he’s not happy with me.