Are You Out There?

Apr 20th, 2009 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Features
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Another week begins, and similar to when we left on Friday, there are still so many questions in the world of love and relationships left unanswered. This weekend, I went out to celebrate a friend’s birthday, and really got a chance to observe the dynamics of “the pursuit of love” in a meaningful way. For many (though they will never admit it), the exercise of going out is nothing more than a half-hearted attempt to prove to the world (and to themselves) that they are sincerely interested in meeting that “perfect” person.

But in studying the way that people carried themselves—both men and women—I have to wonder how serious people really are about meeting that special someone. It was bad … so bad in fact that I walked away energized and ready to do whatever I could to ensure that the Fly Guy community is properly equipped and in the right state of mind to receive that person whenever he or she comes along.

But before we can begin on this journey, I have to ask a basic question that requires everyone’s participation.

The Fly Question of the Day: How confident are you that you will find Mr. or Mrs. Right?

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  • http://bombchell.blogspot.com/ Bombchell in Atlanta

    lol at the vote results

  • Lamico aka LL

    All I see while going out are products of failed relationships gone horribly bad and other factors that cause people to feel the 50/50 or not going to happen

    a) Some people are still bitter and forcing themsleves to try to date while “emotional work still in progress”
    b)Some “attached” people are mingling amongst the single those stats are considerably high. So your guard is up CONSIDERABLY
    c)Some people have “motives” some pure and harmless intentions and some people go out self seeking.

  • Tamika

    Cosigning with Lamico.

    For me personally, I used to be very confident, but lately feeling 50/50.

  • http://www.flaglerhill.com blaze

    I would completely agree with my girl Lamico…well said.

  • Nicki=Maxwell Fan

    I also feel there is a 50/50 chance.

  • http://inobamaforobama.blogspot.com alwillwin

    call me naive, call me a hopeless romantic…i am very confident Mr. Right is out there for me.

    What you put into the universe, you get back. Belief is key.

  • Dalesa222

    I believe there is still hope for true love call me a hopeless romantic this is what I believe!!