The Rules of Attraction With Selita Ebanks
Mar 28th, 2009 | Author: The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Features
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In case you didn’t know, Victoria Secret model Selita Ebanks is pretty fly … and this is coming from a guy who knows a thing or two about flyness. So when the stunning vixen shared her “7 Rules of Attraction” with Best Life Magazine for Men’s Health, I had to share it with the rest of my fly community. Here’s what turns her on in a man.
Has Game
“I’m a big sports fan, and nothing is more unattractive to me than a guy who doesn’t appreciate ESPN. If I have to explain football or basketball, that’s the biggest turn-off.”
Doesn’t Play Rough
“I can’t stand a violent man. Aggression doesn’t belong in the home. And if gets too excited by gore or violence on television, I’m out of there. That is a big sign that says, “Run the other way!”
A Firm Grip
“A man has to have big, strong hands to make me feel safe. When he makes me feel safe, I feel sexy. It’s as simple as that.”
No White Socks
“A guy once walked up to me and started to put his mack on, and I saw him wearing white socks with his suit! If I were in the Olympics, I would have beat anybody in the dash to get out of there.”
A Clean Mouth
“A nice white smile is the sexiest part of a man’s body. I want to kiss something that looks like it taste good. Plus, how you take care of your mouth says a lot about your hygiene.”
A Little Swagger
“I want someone who walks into a room and all eyes turn to him. He doesn’t have to be the finest man in the world, but he has to possess that energy so that when you see him, you think, Oh my goodness!”
Deal Breaker: He’s Not Who He Seems
“I hate it when a guy puts on this front to impress you, and then you find out it’s not really who he is. If you’re a farter, let one loose. I’d rather find out on the first date than three months later. Some women might not mind. She may be a farter too. You will be one stinky couple, but you’ll be happy together.”
**So what do you think of Selita’s laws? Do you agree or disagree?
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well…personally…i like a rough guy…and i dont watch sports that often…
A clean mouth is very important to me, but i’d also have to agree with the others as well.
I’m not a huge sports fan myself, but I love a guy that appreciates sports and has a competitive edge (I’m competitive in other things).
As for rough play, I like a little harmless play, wrestling and such…its a turn on…as long as Ike Turner doesn’t come out.
A firm grip — most definitely! As a woman, I have a very firm handshake. I couldn’t stand being with a “wet fish”. A firm grip shows power, strength and the ability to take charge.
White socks with a suit….um, no. White socks with an appropriate casual outfit, OK.
A clean mouth & swagger — Ditto and ditto.
As far as him not being what he seems, I like a man that’s real and not putting on a facade in terms of personality. However, when it comes to bodily functions, I don’t want him to let loose on date 1, or date 8, or 3 years down the line…Just kidding. When we’re on a comfortable level, fine. But on day one he better be clenching some butt cheeks around me….I’m just sayin….
Random but… Fly Guy looks just like Landon from Harlem Heights!
her list is interesting. lol @ has to be into sports & a firm grip.