She Wakes Up Mad

Mar 19th, 2009 | Author: | Category: Fly Letters
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Dear Fly Guy

My girl is having dreams that I’m going to dump her, then she wakes up mad at me. What do I do?

Mr. “I Didn’t Do Anything”

Dear Mr. “I Didn’t Do Anything,”

The answer is simple. Keep her awake by pumping as much caffeine into her system as the law will allow. And if caffeine doesn’t work, then there are several designer drugs capable of keeping her awake for months at a time. If she never sleeps, then she’ll never have dreams … which means your problem will be solved … right?

Wrong.

There’s obviously something going on between the two of you that’s manifesting itself in her dreams. My advice is to have an honest and earnest conversation with her about the state of your relationship. If you’re completely committed to her, then make that known. But if there really is something to her dreams, then you need to share those concerns. There’s no need to make her feel like she’s tripping if you really aren’t happy. I hope that helps.

The Fly Guy

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  • yoyolb

    A dream is exactly what it is, A DREAM. It is not real. Maybe HER true feelings are coming out in her dreams and she is secretly not happy in the relationship. I def agree that an open convo can help solve this issue, however, if she is actually let’s a dream get her that riled up then an convo may not help at all. He may spend most of the relationship trying to reassure her that he cares, loves, her blah, blah, blah. That sh*t can get old and deplete a person’s energy.

  • misscoco

    Mr. I didn’t do anything, I suggest you talk to her as it was said, but I say after two weeks she keeps having these dreams DUMP HER! She has an unstable brain. Do you really need that headache??? I think not
    Problem solved HA HA

  • lyricalluv

    Lmao….I can pick through this all day and all night. BUT I’AM not. Dreams can be a womans intuition THATS ALL I’M GOING TO SAY

  • misscoco

    If my dreams (night and day) predicted how I acted, I would be a mad crazy woman. And like we’ve discussed in previous posts, if you feel something isn’t right between you and your SO let it go. Don’t make you’re life and their life harder than it has to be.

  • T-Moe

    I really don’t have a comment on the letter. I’m more amused with the look on dude’s face in the picture. LOL It’s screams…

    “What the f**k is wrong with you NOW?! LOL

  • misscoco

    YEEESSS good observation! And look at her cryin like she caught him cheating and then he paper cut her to death. I mean was it that bad? LOL

  • CurlyScorpio

    A dream’s not always a dream. During a relationship with an ex I had constant dreams of him cheating on me. In every dream where he cheated there was always a specific name to the girl. Of course, I’d react the same way as the girl mentioned, I’d ask him if he new a ‘Susana, Roxanna, Viviana,…’ His response was always no. Back then I couldn’t see the obvious pattern, because “it was just a dream”. Anyway down the line I find out he’s been having another relationship on the side with a girl named Anna. Coincidence? Some dreams are just dreams, but if you have a dream with a reoccurring theme there’s more to your dream. In my case, I would always pray to God to let me know or find out if my man was cheating on me. Prayer answered – with name included.

  • cdmck

    If she’s having dreams, there has to be something that she’s tried to supress over time and it’s coming out now! He should definitely have an open and honest conversation with her. It just makes everything so much easier in the long run.

  • yoyolb

    @CurlyScorpio
    maybe your psychic.

  • lyricalluv

    @CurlyScorpio
    My last relationship was the same way thats why I said a dream can be a woman’s intuition. I dreamed my bf got another girl pregnant, I asked him he had this look on his face and denied it. 5 months later he came clean and said she was having a boy.

  • http://www.flaglerhill.com blaze

    Do we need to start asking our ladies what they’re dreaming about now..

    “So, um..what have you been dreamin about lately? Anything interesting…something I should know”

    Are we serious?

  • yoyolb

    @ Blaze
    LOL!!!
    I agree that a woman’s intution can be VERY strong and accurate, however, there is a fine line with everything.

  • Lamico aka LL

    @Blaze

    If your not guilty and not doing questionable things, you wouldn’t have to ask what she is dreaming about RIGHT OR WRONG? lol My dreams have been pretty accurate so I take them very seriously. I don’t act out or curse him out for no reason unbeknownst him I just remember the signs. God send them to prepare you.

  • CurlyScorpio

    @ lyricalluv
    I completely agree. Ever since then I listen to my instincts, and as crazy as it sounds… if a dream doesn’t sit well with me and I feel like there’s more to it, I trust it now.

  • http://www.flaglerhill.com blaze

    @LL
    Well damn..I hope your man gives you a hug and a kiss before you go to bed each and every night.

    @YoYo
    I do believe in following your intuiton. Where are you in Cali?