Comments on: Cribs With The Fly Guy- Part One http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/ Love Advice Will Never Be The Same... Fri, 15 Jul 2011 17:58:14 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: misscoco http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/#comment-17515 misscoco Tue, 03 Mar 2009 17:44:59 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1345#comment-17515 I'm gone keep it as real as can be up in here. IT MATTERS A LOT!! No I'm just playin LOL It matters somewhat. Nice possessions just add onto liking a man that I already liked for many other reasons. I have dated and turned down plenty of men who had money. I didn't always turn them down because they were arrogant or anything like that. It might have been just because they were too flashy or I simply didn't feel a connection. A lot of us could be living it up right now with someone who wanted to marry us and give us a football team of babies but we decided to pass on the money and wait for real love. I don't regret any of my decisions of turning down men who have those attractive worldly possessions. I always think of how I would get along with a person if we somehow became poor. I don't want to be like the people killing themselves and family cuz they can't pay their bills. Got to have something much much deeper starting with Jesus! I’m gone keep it as real as can be up in here. IT MATTERS A LOT!! No I’m just playin LOL It matters somewhat. Nice possessions just add onto liking a man that I already liked for many other reasons. I have dated and turned down plenty of men who had money. I didn’t always turn them down because they were arrogant or anything like that. It might have been just because they were too flashy or I simply didn’t feel a connection. A lot of us could be living it up right now with someone who wanted to marry us and give us a football team of babies but we decided to pass on the money and wait for real love. I don’t regret any of my decisions of turning down men who have those attractive worldly possessions. I always think of how I would get along with a person if we somehow became poor. I don’t want to be like the people killing themselves and family cuz they can’t pay their bills. Got to have something much much deeper starting with Jesus!

]]> By: REINA http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/#comment-17514 REINA Tue, 03 Mar 2009 16:14:39 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1345#comment-17514 The first 3 sentences of JAT's comment pretty much sums it up for me. I'm attracted to will & ambition, determination and by extent, the inanimate exemplars of this. I don't need material possessions; it's just a byproduct of to what I'm attracted. The first 3 sentences of JAT’s comment pretty much sums it up for me. I’m attracted to will & ambition, determination and by extent, the inanimate exemplars of this. I don’t need material possessions; it’s just a byproduct of to what I’m attracted.

]]> By: eclecticism http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/#comment-17513 eclecticism Tue, 03 Mar 2009 15:55:49 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1345#comment-17513 *I think genuine attractions are caused by things money can’t buy.* Moving a little too fast this morning. :) *I think genuine attractions are caused by things money can’t buy.*

Moving a little too fast this morning. :)

]]> By: Lamico aka LL http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/#comment-17512 Lamico aka LL Tue, 03 Mar 2009 15:30:32 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1345#comment-17512 I agree with eclecticism That was well said. The material possessions are a cover up for something that he is lacking. " I don't have a heart and lack substance, BUT GIRL LOOK AT MY ASTON MARTIN AND THIS PIC OF MY PENT HOUSE. ARE YOU ROLLING OR WHAT?" lmao I agree with eclecticism

That was well said. The material possessions are a cover up for something that he is lacking. ” I don’t have a heart and lack substance, BUT GIRL LOOK AT MY ASTON MARTIN AND THIS PIC OF MY PENT HOUSE. ARE YOU ROLLING OR WHAT?” lmao

]]> By: SweetSideKick http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/#comment-17511 SweetSideKick Tue, 03 Mar 2009 15:25:16 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1345#comment-17511 Fly Guy............ You Are a Dam Fool!! That was so funny lol Money is not a concern for me when I am looking for a guy. Fly Guy………… You Are a Dam Fool!! That was so funny lol Money is not a concern for me when I am looking for a guy.

]]> By: eclecticism http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/#comment-17510 eclecticism Tue, 03 Mar 2009 15:18:08 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1345#comment-17510 I wanna change my vote! lol I clicked somewhat but after careful consideration I can honestly say "not at all!" Matterial possessions attract attention and peak interest but can't cause you to be attracted to someone. Well, not me anyway. :) If that were so, I'd be attracted to "D" and he just doens't do it for me. Not you Fly Guy, your homeboy. lol People often force themselves to like someone because of what they have and often do so at the expense of true happiness. I think genuine attractons are caused buy things money can't buy. I am a SUCKER for swagger. Good chemistry, a good heart, spirit and sense of humor are some other things that attract me to someone. Unless of course he smells good. That's always a plus! I guess cologne is the exception to my rule. lol I wanna change my vote! lol I clicked somewhat but after careful consideration I can honestly say “not at all!” Matterial possessions attract attention and peak interest but can’t cause you to be attracted to someone. Well, not me anyway. :) If that were so, I’d be attracted to “D” and he just doens’t do it for me. Not you Fly Guy, your homeboy. lol People often force themselves to like someone because of what they have and often do so at the expense of true happiness. I think genuine attractons are caused buy things money can’t buy. I am a SUCKER for swagger. Good chemistry, a good heart, spirit and sense of humor are some other things that attract me to someone. Unless of course he smells good. That’s always a plus! I guess cologne is the exception to my rule. lol

]]> By: what? http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/#comment-17509 what? Tue, 03 Mar 2009 15:14:13 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1345#comment-17509 ^made ^made

]]> By: what? http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/#comment-17508 what? Tue, 03 Mar 2009 15:13:56 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1345#comment-17508 FG, I'm mad at you!!! U mad me choke on my coffee!!! OMG so funny FG, I’m mad at you!!! U mad me choke on my coffee!!! OMG so funny

]]> By: Just A Thought http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/#comment-17507 Just A Thought Tue, 03 Mar 2009 13:52:47 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1345#comment-17507 Material possessions play a part in attraction, but only to a certain extent. I like drive and ambition, so if you aren't showing some fruit, then you aren't for real. I also, when thinking of the man that I would bless with my hand in marriage, would look for someone who could provide for a family. I will never be a stay at home mom, but I will never be with someone who isn't bringing as much or more to the table than I am. But, I am not looking for a dude with Madoff money. Since I'm not at that level, that kind of cashflow is a fantasy nice to have, but not a requirement. And, most of the dudes that I've met that had a lot of material possessions got on my last nerve (or were unbelievably arrogant), so what little attraction I had disappeared immediately. And, I have to be attracted to the person, because money really doesn't make an ugly dude look better. I still have to wake up to that. And seeing how I can provide my own necessities, his stock isn't as high as he thinks it is. The only thing that would peak my interest to overlook a less than stellar package is intelligence. I love an intellectual man. Material possessions play a part in attraction, but only to a certain extent. I like drive and ambition, so if you aren’t showing some fruit, then you aren’t for real. I also, when thinking of the man that I would bless with my hand in marriage, would look for someone who could provide for a family. I will never be a stay at home mom, but I will never be with someone who isn’t bringing as much or more to the table than I am.

But, I am not looking for a dude with Madoff money. Since I’m not at that level, that kind of cashflow is a fantasy nice to have, but not a requirement.

And, most of the dudes that I’ve met that had a lot of material possessions got on my last nerve (or were unbelievably arrogant), so what little attraction I had disappeared immediately. And, I have to be attracted to the person, because money really doesn’t make an ugly dude look better. I still have to wake up to that. And seeing how I can provide my own necessities, his stock isn’t as high as he thinks it is. The only thing that would peak my interest to overlook a less than stellar package is intelligence. I love an intellectual man.

]]> By: The Fly Guy http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/03/cribs-with-the-fly-guy-part-one/#comment-17506 The Fly Guy Tue, 03 Mar 2009 02:30:19 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1345#comment-17506 no I'm not. Do I look like one of the cast members or something? no I’m not. Do I look like one of the cast members or something?

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