Comments on: The Past Still Haunts Me http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/02/the-past-still-haunts-me/ Love Advice Will Never Be The Same... Fri, 15 Jul 2011 17:58:14 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: misscoco http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/02/the-past-still-haunts-me/#comment-17468 misscoco Mon, 02 Mar 2009 19:46:11 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1328#comment-17468 That was deep. Seeking Unity, once you're done with your counciling or even while you're going through it, talk to your friends. If you are open to someone about your relationships with men you date, they can probably tell you if you are too clingy, too distant... Sometimes the people around you can tell you about yourself when you can't see it yourself. That was deep.
Seeking Unity, once you’re done with your counciling or even while you’re going through it, talk to your friends. If you are open to someone about your relationships with men you date, they can probably tell you if you are too clingy, too distant… Sometimes the people around you can tell you about yourself when you can’t see it yourself.

]]> By: Rhonda Harden Brewster http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/02/the-past-still-haunts-me/#comment-17467 Rhonda Harden Brewster Mon, 02 Mar 2009 16:55:37 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1328#comment-17467 Blessing to you Seeking Unity!! My heart goes out to you in so many ways. I too was molested (by my stepfather) as a young child (age 10-16) and I totally understand exactly where you are. I want to say this to you…TRUST, BELIEVE and RELY on the Lord for your coming out and for your strenght. Allow Him to cover you and comfort you and you will get through this time. It wont be easy babe, but I promise you once you come through….it will be worth it. The pain is huge but it must be dealt with, but I say deal with it on your terms…in your way. Also you must realize your worth and you must allow yourself to fully love yourself. Take it one day at a time. I have been through it and I am here to talk if you care to. A sista reaching out to a sista! God Bless, Rhonda (rhonda.brewster@gmail.com) Blessing to you Seeking Unity!!

My heart goes out to you in so many ways. I too was molested (by my stepfather) as a young child (age 10-16) and I totally understand exactly where you are. I want to say this to you…TRUST, BELIEVE and RELY on the Lord for your coming out and for your strenght. Allow Him to cover you and comfort you and you will get through this time. It wont be easy babe, but I promise you once you come through….it will be worth it. The pain is huge but it must be dealt with, but I say deal with it on your terms…in your way. Also you must realize your worth and you must allow yourself to fully love yourself. Take it one day at a time.

I have been through it and I am here to talk if you care to.

A sista reaching out to a sista!

God Bless,
Rhonda (rhonda.brewster@gmail.com)

]]> By: what? http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/02/the-past-still-haunts-me/#comment-17466 what? Mon, 02 Mar 2009 16:07:48 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1328#comment-17466 I will be praying for you!!! I will be praying for you!!!

]]> By: Just A Thought http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/02/the-past-still-haunts-me/#comment-17465 Just A Thought Mon, 02 Mar 2009 15:13:20 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1328#comment-17465 Dear Seeking Unity: You are definitely on the right track, because your letter shows a lot of introspection and reflection on what has happened to you. I definitely encourage you to seek counseling, so that you can have an ear that will help you navigate to a place of healing and wholeness. Leaving all the hurt, abuse, betrayal, etc. in the past is a painful process, but don't shy away from it because that is what is necessary to move on. Stay positive, and be patient until you are complete and able to wait until the right kind of man finds you, and you in turn are able to recognize him. Dear Seeking Unity:

You are definitely on the right track, because your letter shows a lot of introspection and reflection on what has happened to you. I definitely encourage you to seek counseling, so that you can have an ear that will help you navigate to a place of healing and wholeness. Leaving all the hurt, abuse, betrayal, etc. in the past is a painful process, but don’t shy away from it because that is what is necessary to move on. Stay positive, and be patient until you are complete and able to wait until the right kind of man finds you, and you in turn are able to recognize him.

]]> By: roxie88 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/02/the-past-still-haunts-me/#comment-17464 roxie88 Sun, 01 Mar 2009 22:34:00 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1328#comment-17464 Dear Fly Guy and The Nice Guy DJ ED Nice, I would like to thank you both for the advice. The first step for me was to talk about it and realize that I never dealt with the pain. I am seeking help. I am forever grateful. God Bless Dear Fly Guy and The Nice Guy DJ ED Nice,

I would like to thank you both for the advice. The first step for me was to talk about it and realize that I never dealt with the pain. I am seeking help.

I am forever grateful. God Bless

]]> By: The Nice Guy DJ Ed Nice http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/02/the-past-still-haunts-me/#comment-17463 The Nice Guy DJ Ed Nice Sat, 28 Feb 2009 22:08:03 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=1328#comment-17463 Ay Unity; I, The Nice Guy, agree with what the Fly Guy has said to you as far as his advice... You definitely should seek someone to speak with about your past. I can tell you from personal experience that there isn't anything wrong or bad about talking with a professional. It doesn't make you crazy or a nut case or anything of the such... Just be honest with yourself and whoever it is you chose to speak too & you'll be fine! Ay Unity; I, The Nice Guy, agree with what the Fly Guy has said to you as far as his advice…

You definitely should seek someone to speak with about your past.

I can tell you from personal experience that there isn’t anything wrong or bad about talking with a professional. It doesn’t make you crazy or a nut case or anything of the such…

Just be honest with yourself and whoever it is you chose to speak too & you’ll be fine!

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